lard
07-07-10, 22:20
I really don’t know what to do anymore, I feel desperate and like my life is at an end. For nearly a year now I have been plagued by massive bouts of anxiety, this all started when I got sent a broad on business and ended up having a massive panic attack. I don’t travel well and my wife was 2 weeks away from giving birth to our second child so stress was very high.
Since that panic attack my OCD has flared up really badly, it has now turned the feeling of anxiety into my obsession (rather than a thought) and my compulsions are reassurance seeking from my wife and family. I know this sounds bizarre but it’s my life at the moment and I really can’t take it much longer.
I had been on Sertraline for over 5 years but my GP advised I come off that and try different medication, I have been on anti psychotics which made me ten times worse, I tried Citalapram which did work for 3 weeks but then stopped working. I have tried 5 weeks off meds but still no end to the suffering. Last Friday I was put on Venlafaxine, I only managed to take 6 tablets before I could no longer take the side horrible side effects, now I have had 2 days of the worse anxiety I have ever felt, the feeling takes my breath away, I am struggling to work as I have zero motivation and zero energy. Also I am struggling to look after my 2 young children who I have to do breakfast for and dress every morning, I am consumed by the feeling of pure anxiety.
I do see a CBT therapist but struggle to get any help from my sessions, a pain considering I’m paying £50 an hour for it. She makes it sound so simple, stop thinking about it and don’t go on forums like this seeking reassurance. If it were that simple would I be in the state I am in?
I feel alone and left to fend for myself and just put up and shut up. My mother has just bought me some St Johns Wort to try but is there any point? I feel this is now my life, wake up and get hit by massive waves of anxiety which last pretty much all day, I dread waking up, I dread weekends, I look forward to nothing, my life feels over. I have everything I ever wanted in life and I can’t enjoy it due to this evil illness. I just don’t know how much longer I can take the constant feeling of anxiety and I have thought about ending it, something I really don’t want to do, I want to see my children grow up. I’m so scared that is the only option I have left, I just cant see it changing.
I have been told to just let the feelings be there and show them no attention, HOW? I have OCD and so I have no control over my thinking or thoughts, its always on my mind, its so strong.
Is there hope or is this it?
Since that panic attack my OCD has flared up really badly, it has now turned the feeling of anxiety into my obsession (rather than a thought) and my compulsions are reassurance seeking from my wife and family. I know this sounds bizarre but it’s my life at the moment and I really can’t take it much longer.
I had been on Sertraline for over 5 years but my GP advised I come off that and try different medication, I have been on anti psychotics which made me ten times worse, I tried Citalapram which did work for 3 weeks but then stopped working. I have tried 5 weeks off meds but still no end to the suffering. Last Friday I was put on Venlafaxine, I only managed to take 6 tablets before I could no longer take the side horrible side effects, now I have had 2 days of the worse anxiety I have ever felt, the feeling takes my breath away, I am struggling to work as I have zero motivation and zero energy. Also I am struggling to look after my 2 young children who I have to do breakfast for and dress every morning, I am consumed by the feeling of pure anxiety.
I do see a CBT therapist but struggle to get any help from my sessions, a pain considering I’m paying £50 an hour for it. She makes it sound so simple, stop thinking about it and don’t go on forums like this seeking reassurance. If it were that simple would I be in the state I am in?
I feel alone and left to fend for myself and just put up and shut up. My mother has just bought me some St Johns Wort to try but is there any point? I feel this is now my life, wake up and get hit by massive waves of anxiety which last pretty much all day, I dread waking up, I dread weekends, I look forward to nothing, my life feels over. I have everything I ever wanted in life and I can’t enjoy it due to this evil illness. I just don’t know how much longer I can take the constant feeling of anxiety and I have thought about ending it, something I really don’t want to do, I want to see my children grow up. I’m so scared that is the only option I have left, I just cant see it changing.
I have been told to just let the feelings be there and show them no attention, HOW? I have OCD and so I have no control over my thinking or thoughts, its always on my mind, its so strong.
Is there hope or is this it?