87sal87
11-07-10, 11:14
I just wondered if anyone else thought like this. It's a really bad habit/thought process that I can't break.
If there's any situation/event coming up I always say 'I CAN'T do it!' & worry myself sick about it before eventually bottling it & avoiding the situation.
But the problem is, I KNOW I can do it! Loads of times in my life where I thought 'I can't do it, I can't do it!' & then when I've forced myself, I have DONE it & done it well. So it's annoying me that I can't just keep forcing myself everytime & the opportunities I've missed through bottling it when in reality I have probably been fine & enjoyed myself. Even going as far back as when I was at school, I used to be asked out by my mates to something & I'd be like 'I can't go!' when I could really, I was just telling myself I couldn't....
I'm also bad for finding excuses for EVERYTHING...
The thing is, I have a Uni audition tuesday afternoon for a Theatre & Performance degree. I've got to perform this comedic monologue that shouldn't take longer than 5 minutes but I'm really freaking out about it & close to bottling it again. & This is worrying me this time because I DON'T want to bottle this, this is something I really want. I know I can do it & it's only going to be a few minutes of my life. But the worry & again, the THOUGHT of doing it, is driving me insane & sending my anxiety through the roof. I really feel like I need this & okay, I might make a mess of it but I want to be able to say that I've tried.
Is anyone else really bad for this?
Can any of you offer any pointers on how I can gear myself up for this please?
If there's any situation/event coming up I always say 'I CAN'T do it!' & worry myself sick about it before eventually bottling it & avoiding the situation.
But the problem is, I KNOW I can do it! Loads of times in my life where I thought 'I can't do it, I can't do it!' & then when I've forced myself, I have DONE it & done it well. So it's annoying me that I can't just keep forcing myself everytime & the opportunities I've missed through bottling it when in reality I have probably been fine & enjoyed myself. Even going as far back as when I was at school, I used to be asked out by my mates to something & I'd be like 'I can't go!' when I could really, I was just telling myself I couldn't....
I'm also bad for finding excuses for EVERYTHING...
The thing is, I have a Uni audition tuesday afternoon for a Theatre & Performance degree. I've got to perform this comedic monologue that shouldn't take longer than 5 minutes but I'm really freaking out about it & close to bottling it again. & This is worrying me this time because I DON'T want to bottle this, this is something I really want. I know I can do it & it's only going to be a few minutes of my life. But the worry & again, the THOUGHT of doing it, is driving me insane & sending my anxiety through the roof. I really feel like I need this & okay, I might make a mess of it but I want to be able to say that I've tried.
Is anyone else really bad for this?
Can any of you offer any pointers on how I can gear myself up for this please?