being proud

[davelee]

when you do something like go into to town or somethink that you no can make you panic how can you feel proud?

i just dnt when i do things and don't panic......

i shud be proud but i just feel the same i dont get it

[onceagain]

I know that when I would attempt stuff I would be shaking like a leaf and feeling so panic stricken but if I stood it out and made it through whatever task I would come out feeling a wreck and then all of a sudden I would start smiling from ear to ear... it is a weird feeling,you are in a state and your heart racing but the proud is something inside of you that makes you see past that feeling and look at what you have achieved.

It may be that you are not allowing yourself to really look at what you have just put yourself through and the achievement you have made think it is down to a twisted sense of humour really, bit like going to see a horror comedy... maybe I don't know.

I would have times when I would even get upset that others didn't tell me how well I did. Generally I go with the avoidance thing I think it is much easier to just try to adapt my life yep the chickens way out but one tht I can manage, in fact I would say I achieve more, if I am in a real fluster I do not make any progress and am awful for days when I am in the right frame of mind I don't plan I just go with it and not only do I achieve stuff but I don't put myself through that hell so often enjoy it.

It really doesn't mean there is anything wrong with not feeling exceptionally proud, in a way it is odd we should be kicking ourselves for feeling it after all the tasks that we face are only those we would have done without any thought at all once upon a time x

[louiseevans222]

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