havin a funny 5 mins
14-08-10, 16:16
Hi I'm a mum with 3 wonderful kids aged 7 - 16 who unfortunately because of my fears and living on an Island have never been on holiday. My fear is being too far away from home and then getting ill. I have a wonderful son who knows all about this stupid fear and trys to encourage me to go on day trips to the mainland as he sees how frustrated I get when he goes as I love being on the mainland once I am there, but it is just getting on a ferry to get there, its like an invisible wall stops me. Its not being on the ferry that worries me its just being away from home - if that makes sense. I travel around the Island fine now but that has taken time, as after the birth of my son 16 years ago I started getting these stupid fears of dying. I could then only go about 4 miles from my house, but as I said I can now travel around the Island and not panic. I also have a slight fear of being too far away from my youngest and my husband, who I should say is fab but also is in desperate need of a holiday. I have read so many books and have a little handbook that when I do try to get to the mainland I take with me, but the last time i went sucessfully to the mainland was 3 years ago, since then I haven't been able to go and I get so angry with myself because I know its only me thats stopping me - god when I write that down I then realise how silly it sounds but the fear overtakes everything.
Can anyone lend me a speed boat as I know if I was able to get myself backwards and forwards to the mainland WHEN I wanted to and not have to wait for a ferry I would be o.k - by the way did I say i was a control freak which my husband says is half my trouble as I have not control over getting ill.
Sorry if I went on a bit - lv desperate to get to the mainland and do some serious shopping and stop feeling like a failure.
Can anyone lend me a speed boat as I know if I was able to get myself backwards and forwards to the mainland WHEN I wanted to and not have to wait for a ferry I would be o.k - by the way did I say i was a control freak which my husband says is half my trouble as I have not control over getting ill.
Sorry if I went on a bit - lv desperate to get to the mainland and do some serious shopping and stop feeling like a failure.