pete69
13-09-10, 20:29
hi,
quick synopsis...sa @ 14- dad left home-docs said that was probs what started it, hated the last 2 years of school after that,went on to gov training schemes-always the shy one -but i wasnt shy-i was loud but hated eating with others,and always found ways to avoid it.
spent most of my adult years unemployed,done postwork,tesco night shift,all lasted a few weeks..couldnt get over that eating thing-if we didnt stop for food im sure i would of stuck at em!
finally found my best sa job..work for myself doing gardening,worst part was some clients made tea n called you in to sit round kitchen table:blush:
i must have looked awkward-always felt it.
ok things have moved on i have a good buissness(typo) with the garden maintenance-i work 5 full days a week with the same clients so i know them all now and i feel ok.
have been on phenelzine(nardil)for 1.5 years but i feel its just not kicking it anymore-im ok if i take clonazepam with it but on its own it just makes me shake n the self conciousness is sill there.
have been on many a/d seroxat was the first-3.5 years was very good,i done a lot and met many new faces..times were good:) i gradually forgot to take them as i felt i was ok...moved home and lived with g/f.
big mistake..i couldnt take the living alone bit to suddenly sharing everyday with someone-god i needed space.
so i looked for an alternative to seroxat..citaprolam,prozac,moclomedine,and then i had heard nardil was gold standard for sa so i pushed n pushed my shrink till i got it..it was great first few months-so hyper talk to anyone about nonsense!
but now the balloon has burst.dont get me wrong i think it must be doing something as when taken with clonazepam sa is non existent.
and my clono usage has come down from 3mg a day to 1mg some days and at my very most 1.5mg..so yeah on that side its good -less tranx.
but im still self concious round my partner,even thou she suffers with panic attacks! when the evening draws in and watching telly-i get very uptight and feel im being watched-stupid i know but i get anxious watching telly with someone-especially if its a serios programme-i have to dim all the lights-(another sa trick?)
summing up is it time to try another med that will stop me feeling so self concious aound family and partner..have you found a med that makes you pretty "normal" around others...i would love to hear your success storys.
please dont read this and think im stuck in a bad sa rut-i have my own buissness,have a mortgage,partner,cat etc the usual stuff at 40...but its the self concious nonsense that wont let go.
thanks for reading and i hope i give hope to younger people with sa that you can achieve a quality of life and its not all doom n gloom.
i think im just searching for the "normal" bit on top-hence the title of my post.
lets be careful out there:shades:
quick synopsis...sa @ 14- dad left home-docs said that was probs what started it, hated the last 2 years of school after that,went on to gov training schemes-always the shy one -but i wasnt shy-i was loud but hated eating with others,and always found ways to avoid it.
spent most of my adult years unemployed,done postwork,tesco night shift,all lasted a few weeks..couldnt get over that eating thing-if we didnt stop for food im sure i would of stuck at em!
finally found my best sa job..work for myself doing gardening,worst part was some clients made tea n called you in to sit round kitchen table:blush:
i must have looked awkward-always felt it.
ok things have moved on i have a good buissness(typo) with the garden maintenance-i work 5 full days a week with the same clients so i know them all now and i feel ok.
have been on phenelzine(nardil)for 1.5 years but i feel its just not kicking it anymore-im ok if i take clonazepam with it but on its own it just makes me shake n the self conciousness is sill there.
have been on many a/d seroxat was the first-3.5 years was very good,i done a lot and met many new faces..times were good:) i gradually forgot to take them as i felt i was ok...moved home and lived with g/f.
big mistake..i couldnt take the living alone bit to suddenly sharing everyday with someone-god i needed space.
so i looked for an alternative to seroxat..citaprolam,prozac,moclomedine,and then i had heard nardil was gold standard for sa so i pushed n pushed my shrink till i got it..it was great first few months-so hyper talk to anyone about nonsense!
but now the balloon has burst.dont get me wrong i think it must be doing something as when taken with clonazepam sa is non existent.
and my clono usage has come down from 3mg a day to 1mg some days and at my very most 1.5mg..so yeah on that side its good -less tranx.
but im still self concious round my partner,even thou she suffers with panic attacks! when the evening draws in and watching telly-i get very uptight and feel im being watched-stupid i know but i get anxious watching telly with someone-especially if its a serios programme-i have to dim all the lights-(another sa trick?)
summing up is it time to try another med that will stop me feeling so self concious aound family and partner..have you found a med that makes you pretty "normal" around others...i would love to hear your success storys.
please dont read this and think im stuck in a bad sa rut-i have my own buissness,have a mortgage,partner,cat etc the usual stuff at 40...but its the self concious nonsense that wont let go.
thanks for reading and i hope i give hope to younger people with sa that you can achieve a quality of life and its not all doom n gloom.
i think im just searching for the "normal" bit on top-hence the title of my post.
lets be careful out there:shades: