Ambers
23-09-10, 14:42
I am not sure if I have OCD...but if I do it is only slight. I wondered if I am alone with this problem..or can someone advice me on how I can change myself.
I think this comes from my estranged father and from little memory I have I believe he may have had some form of OCD but I really cant be sure.
I cannot relax when I am away from home and holidays are a nightmare for my husband. I have explained that if he leaves me alone to do my own thing, and ignore me then we will all have a good time.
Firstly, beds! I hate with a passion sleeping in sheets/blankets and usually I lay my own cover down so I can sleep on it. I sleep very tightly as such and I do not move form that position in case I touch any of the bed/bedding. My husband doesn't like the fact that he cannot cuddle me.
Eating - I cannot cook with any utensils at self-catering venues (although strangely I can eat out at restaurants as long as they look clean). This drives my husband mad - as he likes to sit down as a family and eat...I avoid eating! I hardly eat when I am on holiday and I actually am fine with this but again my hubby worries I dont eat enough.
Showers/baths - I cant use the baths but showers are ok as long as I am wearing flipflops. I will not use any towels provided and my husband must remove them from my sight.
None of my clothes must touch any material like curtains/towels/bedlinnen..I hate it if it does and it plays on my mind.
I wear flipflops and will not walk barefoot in the accomadation.
So as you can see it is not a relaxing enviroment for my hubby - but I am used to this and it is ok if I am left alone with it.
I watched mothers and children walking into toilets bared footed at the swimming baths - this turns my tummy...but I wished I caould also be this relaxed.
Help, what can I do to change my life around.
I think this comes from my estranged father and from little memory I have I believe he may have had some form of OCD but I really cant be sure.
I cannot relax when I am away from home and holidays are a nightmare for my husband. I have explained that if he leaves me alone to do my own thing, and ignore me then we will all have a good time.
Firstly, beds! I hate with a passion sleeping in sheets/blankets and usually I lay my own cover down so I can sleep on it. I sleep very tightly as such and I do not move form that position in case I touch any of the bed/bedding. My husband doesn't like the fact that he cannot cuddle me.
Eating - I cannot cook with any utensils at self-catering venues (although strangely I can eat out at restaurants as long as they look clean). This drives my husband mad - as he likes to sit down as a family and eat...I avoid eating! I hardly eat when I am on holiday and I actually am fine with this but again my hubby worries I dont eat enough.
Showers/baths - I cant use the baths but showers are ok as long as I am wearing flipflops. I will not use any towels provided and my husband must remove them from my sight.
None of my clothes must touch any material like curtains/towels/bedlinnen..I hate it if it does and it plays on my mind.
I wear flipflops and will not walk barefoot in the accomadation.
So as you can see it is not a relaxing enviroment for my hubby - but I am used to this and it is ok if I am left alone with it.
I watched mothers and children walking into toilets bared footed at the swimming baths - this turns my tummy...but I wished I caould also be this relaxed.
Help, what can I do to change my life around.