avahsuzi
27-09-10, 23:24
hi all
decided to pluck up some courage and write a lil bit .
im a 27 yr old girl , with three kids . i have suffered severe anxiety for around nine years , since i was raped and became pregnant by the attacker , when i gave birth to my son he went straight and lived with my mum has done ever since , after a coouple of years a had got myself together and met a new man "the love of my life "we had a son together and it was perfect no depression ,nothing he made me feel safe and thn through a stupid argument and dwn to my health decreasing again , i lost him the love of my life had enough and walked away . after a couple of weeks we decided to try again , and found out i was pregnant again within about 4 weeks , he didnt want it neither did i if i was honest but i cudni get rid of it .. so he left again and wanted nothing to do with me or our unborn child, throughout the pregnancy he continued to be a fantastic father to our son , i tryed to involve him in th epregnancy but he wanted nothing to do with any of it, until the day i gave birth to our daughter , when he just swanned in the hospital as if the last nine months had'nt happened, but i bit my tongue , and accepted it.. when i left hospital he visited our daughter etc , i was doin well mentally and physically , with both children , when around my daughter being three months old my ex chapped on my door and asked to talk .. he said he missed me etc etc , i agreed to giv it a shot , he left and said hed text me later tht day , and he did .. but only to tell me he had made a mistake , i was gutted , there and then my heart just broke to a million pieces , my mental health got so bad i couldnt look after myslef let alone the kids , i suffer terrible panic attacks and general anxiety , teh kids got taken off me and given to my ex , not be cause i neglected them or anything just because my mental health jus stopped me from coping so well . but given them to him just kicked me in the teeth again , and basically its went from bad to worse since then a year ago ... in january i got diagnosed with cervical cancer , im almost six months in remission now .. but my life is hell .. i spend everyday panickin from moment i wake up till moment i go to sleep (wen i sleep).. i dont even no what am panickin for its jus there , i cant go out i cant eat , i cant socialise in anyway am stuck in this house .. petrified of being alone , i won back my 50/50 rights of the kids about two months ago .. but i have done nothing about it , im too scared , im frightened i lose them again .. its been two weeks since ive seen them .. and i miss them terribley it hurts so bad , but it hurts worse wen their here cuz i no thy need to go back to him , and im alone.. ireally want my family back .. i just no its never going to happen now .. i admitted myself to hospital last week as i really feel so low that i dont feel safe to be alone , and thy dishcarged me that day and told me to rely on my family .. but i really need help .. im 27 , never drank in my life never touched a drug in my life , i dnt even take a pain killer !! ive been precribed many meds but im to frightned to take them too .. oh i dont even think half of this will have made sense and tbh i dont even no why im writing it , i just no im at the end of the line i cant go lower , and i just dont no what to do .. i just want someone to hold me and tell me it'll all be fine , but thr is no one .. even the kids are gone and the pain is unbearable and people must think im terrible mother , but i do love them sooo much .. i jus cant cope .. but i soo want to cope :( aww i dunno
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decided to pluck up some courage and write a lil bit .
im a 27 yr old girl , with three kids . i have suffered severe anxiety for around nine years , since i was raped and became pregnant by the attacker , when i gave birth to my son he went straight and lived with my mum has done ever since , after a coouple of years a had got myself together and met a new man "the love of my life "we had a son together and it was perfect no depression ,nothing he made me feel safe and thn through a stupid argument and dwn to my health decreasing again , i lost him the love of my life had enough and walked away . after a couple of weeks we decided to try again , and found out i was pregnant again within about 4 weeks , he didnt want it neither did i if i was honest but i cudni get rid of it .. so he left again and wanted nothing to do with me or our unborn child, throughout the pregnancy he continued to be a fantastic father to our son , i tryed to involve him in th epregnancy but he wanted nothing to do with any of it, until the day i gave birth to our daughter , when he just swanned in the hospital as if the last nine months had'nt happened, but i bit my tongue , and accepted it.. when i left hospital he visited our daughter etc , i was doin well mentally and physically , with both children , when around my daughter being three months old my ex chapped on my door and asked to talk .. he said he missed me etc etc , i agreed to giv it a shot , he left and said hed text me later tht day , and he did .. but only to tell me he had made a mistake , i was gutted , there and then my heart just broke to a million pieces , my mental health got so bad i couldnt look after myslef let alone the kids , i suffer terrible panic attacks and general anxiety , teh kids got taken off me and given to my ex , not be cause i neglected them or anything just because my mental health jus stopped me from coping so well . but given them to him just kicked me in the teeth again , and basically its went from bad to worse since then a year ago ... in january i got diagnosed with cervical cancer , im almost six months in remission now .. but my life is hell .. i spend everyday panickin from moment i wake up till moment i go to sleep (wen i sleep).. i dont even no what am panickin for its jus there , i cant go out i cant eat , i cant socialise in anyway am stuck in this house .. petrified of being alone , i won back my 50/50 rights of the kids about two months ago .. but i have done nothing about it , im too scared , im frightened i lose them again .. its been two weeks since ive seen them .. and i miss them terribley it hurts so bad , but it hurts worse wen their here cuz i no thy need to go back to him , and im alone.. ireally want my family back .. i just no its never going to happen now .. i admitted myself to hospital last week as i really feel so low that i dont feel safe to be alone , and thy dishcarged me that day and told me to rely on my family .. but i really need help .. im 27 , never drank in my life never touched a drug in my life , i dnt even take a pain killer !! ive been precribed many meds but im to frightned to take them too .. oh i dont even think half of this will have made sense and tbh i dont even no why im writing it , i just no im at the end of the line i cant go lower , and i just dont no what to do .. i just want someone to hold me and tell me it'll all be fine , but thr is no one .. even the kids are gone and the pain is unbearable and people must think im terrible mother , but i do love them sooo much .. i jus cant cope .. but i soo want to cope :( aww i dunno
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