87sal87
30-09-10, 19:33
Hi guys, [Warning: This is kind of just a rant post]
I haven't posted for awhile now but my anxiety is still here as always, just been trying to cope best I can.
I've always suffered from it, thinking back now I know all the problems I had when I was a kid was due to anxiety & I didn't have a clue!
It's always been there...on & off.
But since Christmas 09' when I ended up in A&E with an ungodly fast heart rate, things have been worse than ever!!!
I am basically a wreck now & am plagued with worries constantly, over everything little thing & the whole 'front' I have to put on with my family so they don't know how bad things are is getting exhausting.
I suffer from social & health anxiety worst...but everything worries me really. At the minute I'm worrying about having Ovarian Cancer & the thought of going out & having a good time makes my stomach churn...which is the saddest thing of all. :(
Back before the anxiety completely took over, I was a happy, bright, loud, pleasant person who reveled in going out & having fun & always tried to stay positive. Now that person has completely dissapeared & I hate the person I've become :(
Bits of the old me are still in here somewhere but they rarely come out...
I feel so low all of the time & trapped in my own mind. There's so much I want to do in life & I feel like I've been tied up like a dog in a backyard with 6ft fences around me. With anxiety as the rope around my neck :(& the world beyond that I'll never see....as anxiety will never let me get over those 'fences'.
I'm only 23 & I feel like 63...I'm even started to look it with all the stress. I'm fretting in front of the mirror because of my dull, pale, ravaged skin, dark circles & bags under my eyes...all because of constant stress & worry...
I look at photos of myself from only a few years ago & cry because I looked so much healthier, brighter...happier...
I feel like I've wasted the best years of my life & am continuing to do so & I'll wake up one day & realise that I've wasted my life, wasted my talents, wasted my personality, wasted my self :weep: All because of being 'too scared'
& Now, in a week's time I'm going to a show [Armstrong & Miller Live] in Manchester & instead of being really excited & happy about it, I'm dreading it & worrying myself sick.
I love comedy & music & going to live shows & gigs at one time was my passion, I couldn't go a few months without seeing someone/or a live band.
& If someone would have told me a few years ago that one day soon I'd be DREADING going to a show...I would have never have believed it.
But I am...& it's horrible...
I don't know what to do anymore...thanks to everyone who has read this, just needed to get it off my chest :(
I haven't posted for awhile now but my anxiety is still here as always, just been trying to cope best I can.
I've always suffered from it, thinking back now I know all the problems I had when I was a kid was due to anxiety & I didn't have a clue!
It's always been there...on & off.
But since Christmas 09' when I ended up in A&E with an ungodly fast heart rate, things have been worse than ever!!!
I am basically a wreck now & am plagued with worries constantly, over everything little thing & the whole 'front' I have to put on with my family so they don't know how bad things are is getting exhausting.
I suffer from social & health anxiety worst...but everything worries me really. At the minute I'm worrying about having Ovarian Cancer & the thought of going out & having a good time makes my stomach churn...which is the saddest thing of all. :(
Back before the anxiety completely took over, I was a happy, bright, loud, pleasant person who reveled in going out & having fun & always tried to stay positive. Now that person has completely dissapeared & I hate the person I've become :(
Bits of the old me are still in here somewhere but they rarely come out...
I feel so low all of the time & trapped in my own mind. There's so much I want to do in life & I feel like I've been tied up like a dog in a backyard with 6ft fences around me. With anxiety as the rope around my neck :(& the world beyond that I'll never see....as anxiety will never let me get over those 'fences'.
I'm only 23 & I feel like 63...I'm even started to look it with all the stress. I'm fretting in front of the mirror because of my dull, pale, ravaged skin, dark circles & bags under my eyes...all because of constant stress & worry...
I look at photos of myself from only a few years ago & cry because I looked so much healthier, brighter...happier...
I feel like I've wasted the best years of my life & am continuing to do so & I'll wake up one day & realise that I've wasted my life, wasted my talents, wasted my personality, wasted my self :weep: All because of being 'too scared'
& Now, in a week's time I'm going to a show [Armstrong & Miller Live] in Manchester & instead of being really excited & happy about it, I'm dreading it & worrying myself sick.
I love comedy & music & going to live shows & gigs at one time was my passion, I couldn't go a few months without seeing someone/or a live band.
& If someone would have told me a few years ago that one day soon I'd be DREADING going to a show...I would have never have believed it.
But I am...& it's horrible...
I don't know what to do anymore...thanks to everyone who has read this, just needed to get it off my chest :(