Solace
24-10-10, 23:30
The dreaded party invites have started coming in! And already I am experiencing the feelings of panic tug at me. :ohmy:
Some friends of my hubby are hosting a fancy dress Halloween do, most of those attending are people I haven't met, the few I did meet was back at the start of our relationship I haven't seen them for some years, and as I found it difficult at that point in time to mingle with new people I kept putting off meeting up with them time and time again until so much time had passed, I have thought they must think I am weird or odd for never attending anything with my hubby and so avoid them all the more.
I find it quite difficult at times, to socialise with and make friends with new people, I feel as if those around me must see some kind of sign lit up like a neon warning of sorts- She's weird!- and as much as part of me knows this is really stupid, it really gets to me and brings me down.
I could kick myself at times, especially as when I feel OK, or as close to normal as I possibly can ( whatever that means? ) I am really sociable, chatty and get on so well with new people. I find myself enjoying their company and vice versa, so I can't understand how I get myself into these trains of thought? And get annoyed with myself as a result.
I am on day 6 of taking Citalopram-20mg- and hope that, in time, these will help me worry less and not have these awful feelings? I have found myself having panic attacks at the thought of going out and this has meant me refusing to and hiding under my duvet, curtains shut.
A typical day was fast becoming, me staying in bed, room in darkness watching Dvds back to back as I just didn't want to face anything or anyone. Falling in and out of sleep. I would have a bath and get straight back into my PJs.
I was even switching off my phone as I just didn't ( or couldn't ) talk to my friends etc...
Social situations are still a little scary for me, well very, if I am totally honest and I have already got myself out of going to the party mentioned. I think maybe as it's only early days for me on the Citalopram I need to be realistic and take things slowly.
I wonder how I will be feeling in time for next years invites??!:shrug:
Some friends of my hubby are hosting a fancy dress Halloween do, most of those attending are people I haven't met, the few I did meet was back at the start of our relationship I haven't seen them for some years, and as I found it difficult at that point in time to mingle with new people I kept putting off meeting up with them time and time again until so much time had passed, I have thought they must think I am weird or odd for never attending anything with my hubby and so avoid them all the more.
I find it quite difficult at times, to socialise with and make friends with new people, I feel as if those around me must see some kind of sign lit up like a neon warning of sorts- She's weird!- and as much as part of me knows this is really stupid, it really gets to me and brings me down.
I could kick myself at times, especially as when I feel OK, or as close to normal as I possibly can ( whatever that means? ) I am really sociable, chatty and get on so well with new people. I find myself enjoying their company and vice versa, so I can't understand how I get myself into these trains of thought? And get annoyed with myself as a result.
I am on day 6 of taking Citalopram-20mg- and hope that, in time, these will help me worry less and not have these awful feelings? I have found myself having panic attacks at the thought of going out and this has meant me refusing to and hiding under my duvet, curtains shut.
A typical day was fast becoming, me staying in bed, room in darkness watching Dvds back to back as I just didn't want to face anything or anyone. Falling in and out of sleep. I would have a bath and get straight back into my PJs.
I was even switching off my phone as I just didn't ( or couldn't ) talk to my friends etc...
Social situations are still a little scary for me, well very, if I am totally honest and I have already got myself out of going to the party mentioned. I think maybe as it's only early days for me on the Citalopram I need to be realistic and take things slowly.
I wonder how I will be feeling in time for next years invites??!:shrug: