Susanw
17-11-10, 22:53
Did look for a chit chat to post this but never seen one,,as I did join this forum due to my panic anxiety ,,thought better post this here,,but kinda scared to also as dont want other to do what im doing:blush:
Im living the lie to my husband,,,he going though hell at the moment,,,his mum and brother both in hospital,,brother moved to icu last night,,I almost fell to bits but did cope well,,but hubby being the tough man till I said I was doing well and not taking any tablets,,i got mirt last wednesday,,it helped me loads,,stopped being sick,,eating well now,,no weight gain,,not had dizipam,,not had one for weeks,,he thinks if the doc say to need them you take them,,well tonight said I will take my tablet the mirt,,I put it down the sink,,he went to bed happy as I took this tablet,,but I feel awfel as he's my best friend and husband,,Ive never lied to him before,,but had to make him think I took the tablet as he's in bit with his family so ill,,I realy am doing well I did the mistake of cleaning the kitchen cupbourds,,as I was cleaning everything in my early days of my panic,,did not know how to cope then,,he thinks im still haing panic attacks or feel the need to be busy,,the house is a mess as not did house work,,well proper house work for ages,,as just too weak back them,,but I do feel good and happy about myself,,long my it last.
My question is,,is this normal to lie to keep other half happy,,I dont want him to worry about me now as I am doing well at the moment:yesyes:,,,He's the kind of guy who would count my tablets to see if I had one,,on the sly,,I just want him to stop worrying about me ,,and look after hiself as he's not superman.
I hope this makes sence as very tired tonight,,mum in law might be out of hospital tomorrow,,bro in law he doing better,,but will be in for weeks
Im living the lie to my husband,,,he going though hell at the moment,,,his mum and brother both in hospital,,brother moved to icu last night,,I almost fell to bits but did cope well,,but hubby being the tough man till I said I was doing well and not taking any tablets,,i got mirt last wednesday,,it helped me loads,,stopped being sick,,eating well now,,no weight gain,,not had dizipam,,not had one for weeks,,he thinks if the doc say to need them you take them,,well tonight said I will take my tablet the mirt,,I put it down the sink,,he went to bed happy as I took this tablet,,but I feel awfel as he's my best friend and husband,,Ive never lied to him before,,but had to make him think I took the tablet as he's in bit with his family so ill,,I realy am doing well I did the mistake of cleaning the kitchen cupbourds,,as I was cleaning everything in my early days of my panic,,did not know how to cope then,,he thinks im still haing panic attacks or feel the need to be busy,,the house is a mess as not did house work,,well proper house work for ages,,as just too weak back them,,but I do feel good and happy about myself,,long my it last.
My question is,,is this normal to lie to keep other half happy,,I dont want him to worry about me now as I am doing well at the moment:yesyes:,,,He's the kind of guy who would count my tablets to see if I had one,,on the sly,,I just want him to stop worrying about me ,,and look after hiself as he's not superman.
I hope this makes sence as very tired tonight,,mum in law might be out of hospital tomorrow,,bro in law he doing better,,but will be in for weeks