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maxxie
17-03-06, 19:00
Hello, I am new to this website, have had quite extreme anxiety on and off for ten years now...

It got quite bad last year after a lot of changes over the year before, boyfriend of five yrs left, moved home, my manager left, leaving me to manage 12 ppl.

I went to Greece on holiday and I was nervous before I went cos it was a completely diff holiday to what I usually do and I am frightened of flying...

The first night, I completely froze with anxiety and had loads of symptoms that I had never experienced with panic attacks before, I wanted to go home but couldnt, felt I was going mad!!

It lasted the whole hol on and off and then when I got home, I couldnt go back to work for a while..

I am scared it is getting worse not better and I dont know if anyone else has had that on holiday before.

Maxxie xx

nomorepanic
17-03-06, 19:32
Hi Maxxie

Welcome aboard and lovely to see you here.

You may like to read this post for some starting pointers ......

First Steps to overcoming Panic and Anxiety (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=942)

You are not alone in that fear as you were miles from home and wanted to get back to safety again.

Hope you get some great help on here.


Nicola

Karen
17-03-06, 19:57
Hi Maxxie

Welcome to the forum.

You'll get some great help and support here.

Karen



Happiness is not a state to arrive at but a manner of travelling.

You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough ~ Christine Cagney, Cagney & Lacey

Tracyh
17-03-06, 20:14
Hi Maxxie I hope you find some answers on here :D


tracyx

trac67
17-03-06, 21:35
Hi Maxxie,

Welcome to the forum, you will get a lot of good advice here and make some new friends.

Take care

Trac xx

'Live your life with arms wide open, today is where your book begins, the rest is still unwritten'

clickaway
18-03-06, 01:10
Hiya Maxxie,

Welcome aboard, and you'll find a lot of comfort and advice here.

Panic attacks and suchlike can be brought on by association, often negative thoughts. For example, being on holiday without your b/f may have brought it on, or maybe you yearned for the 'safety' of your home.

I was once bad on holiday because I did not find the freedom I wanted, and also the weather was cold and damp!

Take Care,


Ray
http://www.anxietyrelease.org.uk/

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance.
~Mark Sanders and Tia Sillers

Meg
18-03-06, 21:43
Hello

This is really common and most of us have had a bad time away at some point.

Common Symptoms of Panic Attacks, Anxiety, Phobias and OCD. (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/NMPcms.php?nmppage=symptoms)

Health Anxiety (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/NMPcms.php?nmppage=healthanxiety)

Links post: Links to posts about Common Problems (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7784)

What would be in your 'Anxiety Toolbox'? (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3938)



Meg
www.anxietymanagementltd.com

proactiveness, positivity, persistence, perseverance and practice = progress

maxxie
25-03-06, 19:37
Thank you for your advice, I hope to find some friends here, getting used to chatting online, lol.

I just hope that I am not limiting my life now as every time I think of going away and even changing my job that feeling comes of dread and panic sets in.

I do understand it is common, but I have never met anyone who doesnt enjoy going on holiday and I so wanted to enjoy it!

Piglet
25-03-06, 20:32
A big welcome to the site :)

Love Piglet

"Supposing a tree fell down, Pooh, when we were underneath it?" said Piglet.
"Supposing it didn't," said Pooh after careful thought.

sal
26-03-06, 00:19
Hi Max

You will meet lots of friends on here and get so much support.

Love Sal xx


Dont mess up the best things in your life, just because at present you are unsure who you are.


"Life is a distance and to travel that distance you were given the strength and guidance to do so".

april tones
27-03-06, 17:27
hi, im a bit frigthened of flying! wasnt when younger! i been on loads of planes! my parents live in france too x

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