ashley
17-03-06, 23:36
In need of help for my dearest cousin , who is actually going through hell at present and i am very concerned for her.
She has been married to her husband for 4 years,and they have shared a beautiful relationship- always had a very close marriage, what i would consider very inlove.. never apart from each other , and when they ever was apart was always on the phone-- i mean inlove.
Her husband has always been a kind, caring,considerate,and surportive husband in every way possible.
In the last six weeks, she had notice a change in him- he became very distant, avoiding her, and often aggressive.
But then in the last two weeks he told her on a number of occassions, that he wanted to kill himself,and he had been seeing things that wernt there.
He has told her to leave, to pack her bags and go- and when she does... he retracts his words and wants her to stay.He says he is confused, under pressure, dont want any responsibilty of life anymore, he is depressed, he has showed no emotions, and at times has had certain visons.. remember that this is an ordinary straight down the middle kinda guy.
He has recently been seen by the local mental health team, who said he is possibley having nervous breakdown.( what are the symtoms for this anyway)
He did lose his dad two years ago to cancer and his brother 8 years ago to a brain tumour... he had a scan for his head last year to may headaches he was getting-- but this was fine.
Last night after many uncomtatable ones, he flipped out - for the first time at her in his life after four years, and threw her out into the street ,into the cold and dark, because the mental health vistor was coming and he didnt want her present, once he came out side he reversed his car into her... and did actually hurt her...she was in a state.
He tells her , that he needs to get away from the house, work , everyone , including her... he says he needs space.. but he is still going back to the house when she is not there, still going to work,and still having his son over...and she feels that he has completey singled her out of his life at the moment, wont take her calls , and on the rare occassions she has spoke to him, he has gone in to one, dosnt want to answer any questions, and hangs up on her.
Is this the normal reaction to someone that is having a nervous breakdown??
why is there so much hatred there for her, she feels that he hates her, and is ok with everyone else--- it donst make sense ,, she cant understand why such a lovley average guy.. would change so much to wards her, she is absoulty devastated..
He has been on prozac for five days, and has been worse since he has been on them..
This girl is in bits...please give your advice for my cousin ...poor thing.
Love ash xxxxx
and many thanx from leanda x
She has been married to her husband for 4 years,and they have shared a beautiful relationship- always had a very close marriage, what i would consider very inlove.. never apart from each other , and when they ever was apart was always on the phone-- i mean inlove.
Her husband has always been a kind, caring,considerate,and surportive husband in every way possible.
In the last six weeks, she had notice a change in him- he became very distant, avoiding her, and often aggressive.
But then in the last two weeks he told her on a number of occassions, that he wanted to kill himself,and he had been seeing things that wernt there.
He has told her to leave, to pack her bags and go- and when she does... he retracts his words and wants her to stay.He says he is confused, under pressure, dont want any responsibilty of life anymore, he is depressed, he has showed no emotions, and at times has had certain visons.. remember that this is an ordinary straight down the middle kinda guy.
He has recently been seen by the local mental health team, who said he is possibley having nervous breakdown.( what are the symtoms for this anyway)
He did lose his dad two years ago to cancer and his brother 8 years ago to a brain tumour... he had a scan for his head last year to may headaches he was getting-- but this was fine.
Last night after many uncomtatable ones, he flipped out - for the first time at her in his life after four years, and threw her out into the street ,into the cold and dark, because the mental health vistor was coming and he didnt want her present, once he came out side he reversed his car into her... and did actually hurt her...she was in a state.
He tells her , that he needs to get away from the house, work , everyone , including her... he says he needs space.. but he is still going back to the house when she is not there, still going to work,and still having his son over...and she feels that he has completey singled her out of his life at the moment, wont take her calls , and on the rare occassions she has spoke to him, he has gone in to one, dosnt want to answer any questions, and hangs up on her.
Is this the normal reaction to someone that is having a nervous breakdown??
why is there so much hatred there for her, she feels that he hates her, and is ok with everyone else--- it donst make sense ,, she cant understand why such a lovley average guy.. would change so much to wards her, she is absoulty devastated..
He has been on prozac for five days, and has been worse since he has been on them..
This girl is in bits...please give your advice for my cousin ...poor thing.
Love ash xxxxx
and many thanx from leanda x