mumof4
27-11-10, 11:12
dont know if this is in the right place wasnt to sure where to post it.
im just looking for a kick up the bum or advice or both
i have just had my 4th child she will be 3 weeks on monday and i have this thing that if i go out ill faint stupid i know but when i had my son 5 years my blood pressure was low it was 90/60 so of course i went out 1 day with him he wasnt that old and i felt dizzy in tk maxx not that i fainted i sat down and it passed. that was the last time that has ever happened as my blood pressure went up to 110/60 and all was fine,
anyway now that i have had my daughter i have the fear it will happen again i havent been out the house yet with her i feel like such a bad mum, but this fear has came again but this time my blood pressure is fine it was 120/70 last week when the midwife checked it.
but this doesnt help i still think it will happen and even when im driving my car which i havent done as im scared it will happen when im driving.
so i need some advice as i dont know what to think anymore the doctor says i cant but i wont listen to her i dont believe her.
and can it happen if im driving the car,
tks
im just looking for a kick up the bum or advice or both
i have just had my 4th child she will be 3 weeks on monday and i have this thing that if i go out ill faint stupid i know but when i had my son 5 years my blood pressure was low it was 90/60 so of course i went out 1 day with him he wasnt that old and i felt dizzy in tk maxx not that i fainted i sat down and it passed. that was the last time that has ever happened as my blood pressure went up to 110/60 and all was fine,
anyway now that i have had my daughter i have the fear it will happen again i havent been out the house yet with her i feel like such a bad mum, but this fear has came again but this time my blood pressure is fine it was 120/70 last week when the midwife checked it.
but this doesnt help i still think it will happen and even when im driving my car which i havent done as im scared it will happen when im driving.
so i need some advice as i dont know what to think anymore the doctor says i cant but i wont listen to her i dont believe her.
and can it happen if im driving the car,
tks