Confused2006
20-03-06, 20:57
Hola!
I decided to join this website so I could learn more about what happened to my boyfriend this weekend. He spent last week with his family. Basically doing everything for his sisters and the twins. One of his sisters was getting married on Friday afternoon. I joined him down south on Thursday evening. When I picked him up Thursday eveing he was already starting to break down but I was unaware of his condition so I though he was just being difficult. By the time we arrived at the wedding on Friday he was having a serious anxiety attack. I didnt know what was going on. He didnt want to be around all the people. He explained he was having an attack but I didnt understand the seriousness of it. I did the best I could to help calm him. Which I sat with him in the back corner with his back facing the crowd and he sat there staring out the window. His attack continued and then he became a little harsh with his words so I was frustrated. I told him we could leave. After meeting his dad and talking to him I found out all of his family has had attacks before. So we left. Went back to the hotel and there he curled up under the covers. He was so worried I would leave him but I would never want to because he is such a great man but to see him like this was hard. It was very difficult to deal with. So my question is what should I do in a situation like this? Should I take him away from it all when it happens and take him to where he is most comfortable? I just needs some advice from others who knows how this feels because I can't help him if I do not know how. I would appreciate any and all advice. Thank you in advance!
I decided to join this website so I could learn more about what happened to my boyfriend this weekend. He spent last week with his family. Basically doing everything for his sisters and the twins. One of his sisters was getting married on Friday afternoon. I joined him down south on Thursday evening. When I picked him up Thursday eveing he was already starting to break down but I was unaware of his condition so I though he was just being difficult. By the time we arrived at the wedding on Friday he was having a serious anxiety attack. I didnt know what was going on. He didnt want to be around all the people. He explained he was having an attack but I didnt understand the seriousness of it. I did the best I could to help calm him. Which I sat with him in the back corner with his back facing the crowd and he sat there staring out the window. His attack continued and then he became a little harsh with his words so I was frustrated. I told him we could leave. After meeting his dad and talking to him I found out all of his family has had attacks before. So we left. Went back to the hotel and there he curled up under the covers. He was so worried I would leave him but I would never want to because he is such a great man but to see him like this was hard. It was very difficult to deal with. So my question is what should I do in a situation like this? Should I take him away from it all when it happens and take him to where he is most comfortable? I just needs some advice from others who knows how this feels because I can't help him if I do not know how. I would appreciate any and all advice. Thank you in advance!