ladybird64
22-01-11, 20:50
Weird title, let me explain (now that I've decided where to post this at last! :wacko:)
Quick history. A mixture of Panic Attacks, Agoraphobia and Anxiety for more than 25 years, probably longer.
I went on meds (Citalopram) for 6 months last year after having taken nothing before, felt wonderfully better and decided to stop them cold turkey in October, felt awful for a while then side effects stopped.
I have noticed a gradual remergence of old anxieties, very gradual. I am aware of what helped me while I was taking meds and have continued to believe that this is the way forward for me while I'm not on meds.
I have had a couple of PA's recently, not pleasant but I'm still standing.
What I have noticed though is just how good my brain is at storing every bad thing that has happened connected with my past panicky experiences! The places where it happened (every one of them :lac:), the feelings that one gets when the panic starts to rise, the sensations of helplessness, the very same thought processes that I had before.
All these sensations and feelings, every last one are EXACTLY the same as before, right down to the last detail.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with my mind, it is as sharp as a damn pin. It is feeding off information that it has, that I have provided it with.
It has taken that information and provided me with worst case scenarios, avoidence strategies the lot.
And this is only in the past week because I had a flash of the old panic!
I'm going to try and come at this from another angle, the "it doesn't matter" angle. The other day when I had the Panic I spent an hour before I left the house debating (just like I used to :doh:) on whether I should get the bus to where I needed to go (not a problem for me) or make the effort to walk and possibly face a panic. This internal debate lasted until I reached the bus stop when I decided that no, I shouldn't avoid, I should walk.
And yep, the inevitable happened. Which is not surprising because I had kind of worked myself up into a mild frenzy of what I SHOULD do.
Pressure on me built up over an hour and a half and an inevitable conclusion, a feeling of failure and a very strong sense of deja-vue.
I'm not going to do that again. If I want to get the bus I will, if I don't feel like doing something I won't do it. It's not avoidance because there is a part of my brain that knows I CAN do it and did it sucessfully for months last year, I went to places that had terrified me for years, went on trains, conquered so many of my nightmares because I finally stopped trying to fight with my own mind.
I haven't lost it, it's not a "blip" (grrr), it's still there in my mind. Nothing has changed except I have let my memory of anxiety and panic take charge again..briefly.
I think it's time I used that amazing mental strength that I think we all have somewhere (although it may not feel like it) and put it to good use.
Dealing with panic and anxiety in my way on my terms. :yesyes:
I feel better for getting all that down, sorry if it's bored you:flowers:
Quick history. A mixture of Panic Attacks, Agoraphobia and Anxiety for more than 25 years, probably longer.
I went on meds (Citalopram) for 6 months last year after having taken nothing before, felt wonderfully better and decided to stop them cold turkey in October, felt awful for a while then side effects stopped.
I have noticed a gradual remergence of old anxieties, very gradual. I am aware of what helped me while I was taking meds and have continued to believe that this is the way forward for me while I'm not on meds.
I have had a couple of PA's recently, not pleasant but I'm still standing.
What I have noticed though is just how good my brain is at storing every bad thing that has happened connected with my past panicky experiences! The places where it happened (every one of them :lac:), the feelings that one gets when the panic starts to rise, the sensations of helplessness, the very same thought processes that I had before.
All these sensations and feelings, every last one are EXACTLY the same as before, right down to the last detail.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with my mind, it is as sharp as a damn pin. It is feeding off information that it has, that I have provided it with.
It has taken that information and provided me with worst case scenarios, avoidence strategies the lot.
And this is only in the past week because I had a flash of the old panic!
I'm going to try and come at this from another angle, the "it doesn't matter" angle. The other day when I had the Panic I spent an hour before I left the house debating (just like I used to :doh:) on whether I should get the bus to where I needed to go (not a problem for me) or make the effort to walk and possibly face a panic. This internal debate lasted until I reached the bus stop when I decided that no, I shouldn't avoid, I should walk.
And yep, the inevitable happened. Which is not surprising because I had kind of worked myself up into a mild frenzy of what I SHOULD do.
Pressure on me built up over an hour and a half and an inevitable conclusion, a feeling of failure and a very strong sense of deja-vue.
I'm not going to do that again. If I want to get the bus I will, if I don't feel like doing something I won't do it. It's not avoidance because there is a part of my brain that knows I CAN do it and did it sucessfully for months last year, I went to places that had terrified me for years, went on trains, conquered so many of my nightmares because I finally stopped trying to fight with my own mind.
I haven't lost it, it's not a "blip" (grrr), it's still there in my mind. Nothing has changed except I have let my memory of anxiety and panic take charge again..briefly.
I think it's time I used that amazing mental strength that I think we all have somewhere (although it may not feel like it) and put it to good use.
Dealing with panic and anxiety in my way on my terms. :yesyes:
I feel better for getting all that down, sorry if it's bored you:flowers: