mtatum4496
15-02-11, 21:23
Awhile back, a friend asked me if I wanted to go to an event that is happening this month. At the time, he was trying to get a head count of how many folks might like to go so he could order tickets. I told him at that time I didn't want to go, since the event has to do with something I'm not interested in.
Later on, I found out that the event is taking place in a venue that I didn't care for even before I developed my anxiety disorder - the seats are not comfortable for my larger frame, there's no leg room, and in general the theater area is not very comfortable in my opinion.
As it turns out, my friend went ahead and ordered two tickets for the event, figuring that he could get someone to go with him. So far, everybody has told him they are already busy or aren't interested in seeing the show.
He's now said he will go by himself, but I'm getting a little bit of a pushback, intimating that I should go and put up with it, out of loyalty.
Honestly, if the show were being held at an open air stadium or our city amphitheater, or even one of the other theaters in town where there is more leg room and larger seats, I might be willing to give it a shot, even though the chances of enjoying the show would be somewhere between slim and none. But I can't see any good reason to go to something I am not likely to enjoy when it is in an environment that I've never liked in the first place.
So what do you guys think? Am I being selfish? Should I suck it up and go anyway?
Later on, I found out that the event is taking place in a venue that I didn't care for even before I developed my anxiety disorder - the seats are not comfortable for my larger frame, there's no leg room, and in general the theater area is not very comfortable in my opinion.
As it turns out, my friend went ahead and ordered two tickets for the event, figuring that he could get someone to go with him. So far, everybody has told him they are already busy or aren't interested in seeing the show.
He's now said he will go by himself, but I'm getting a little bit of a pushback, intimating that I should go and put up with it, out of loyalty.
Honestly, if the show were being held at an open air stadium or our city amphitheater, or even one of the other theaters in town where there is more leg room and larger seats, I might be willing to give it a shot, even though the chances of enjoying the show would be somewhere between slim and none. But I can't see any good reason to go to something I am not likely to enjoy when it is in an environment that I've never liked in the first place.
So what do you guys think? Am I being selfish? Should I suck it up and go anyway?