daisycake
01-03-11, 00:06
Especially since said friend is gay and in a commited long term, co-habiting relationship! I don't know what it is that I'm feeling - I love being around him, he seems the same with me, we have everything in common from books to films to music... Meet up every week and he's the only person my age who I feel I can really talk to about anything and everything. He's honestly amazing. But he's attached.
And I cant figure out whether I like him as a friend or if I want something more than that.
But it's like a completely non-sexual thing - I wouldn't go putting on make up or fancy clothing to impress him? Does that mean I don't love him? It's so confusing - part of me wants to be in love because that would prove to me that I am normal (I've never had a crush on a bloke, ever, I have on girls but not blokes.. )
If he were single or even just straight I'd have told him how I feel by now. I don't honestly know what to do other than just carry on as it is at the moment.. He obviously loves his partner to bits, and I'd hate for him to know how I feel as it'd ruin the friendship. But he's invited me round for a meal and a bottle of wine one night with him and partner, and I just keep thinking how weird that will be - how left out or sad I'll feel seeing the two of them together. oes that make sense? I'm avoiding the wine that night as I don't fancy losing all my inhibitions and saying something I'll only regret!
My mind's so confused over it all :roflmao: maybe I'm overthinking it!
And I cant figure out whether I like him as a friend or if I want something more than that.
But it's like a completely non-sexual thing - I wouldn't go putting on make up or fancy clothing to impress him? Does that mean I don't love him? It's so confusing - part of me wants to be in love because that would prove to me that I am normal (I've never had a crush on a bloke, ever, I have on girls but not blokes.. )
If he were single or even just straight I'd have told him how I feel by now. I don't honestly know what to do other than just carry on as it is at the moment.. He obviously loves his partner to bits, and I'd hate for him to know how I feel as it'd ruin the friendship. But he's invited me round for a meal and a bottle of wine one night with him and partner, and I just keep thinking how weird that will be - how left out or sad I'll feel seeing the two of them together. oes that make sense? I'm avoiding the wine that night as I don't fancy losing all my inhibitions and saying something I'll only regret!
My mind's so confused over it all :roflmao: maybe I'm overthinking it!