positiveness
11-06-11, 13:57
I knew that this weekend was going to be bad 'cos my youngest son is moving away and have been dreading the 'empty nest syndrome'. It happened before when he started uni but this time he is going to the other end of the country and I will hardly see him. I know that it is normal for the kids to leave home, but he is the youngest of 5, born when I was 41 so I have always had someone to care for. We came back to live in England when things turned bad in Spain 8 years ago and it has been an achievement for him to do so well.
I would have coped albeit a struggle but I heard that my only friend died this morning and my mind has completely blanked out. I am so sad. I have social phobia, anxiety and depression and she is the first person that I have ever made a friend of. Her poor partner and family are in my mind. I feel numb, yet full of pain.
To add to my (selfish?) feelings, this same son was beaten up last night protecting a couple of girls who were being bullied. He had gone out with his mates to say goodbye, but this happened outside a fast food outlet and he and his friend heard the girls shouting, so tried to help. Apart from torn clothes and cuts and bruises he is ok but it has sent my anxiety levels sky high.
What a cruel, sad place the world is at times!!
Would appreciate a hug please.
I would have coped albeit a struggle but I heard that my only friend died this morning and my mind has completely blanked out. I am so sad. I have social phobia, anxiety and depression and she is the first person that I have ever made a friend of. Her poor partner and family are in my mind. I feel numb, yet full of pain.
To add to my (selfish?) feelings, this same son was beaten up last night protecting a couple of girls who were being bullied. He had gone out with his mates to say goodbye, but this happened outside a fast food outlet and he and his friend heard the girls shouting, so tried to help. Apart from torn clothes and cuts and bruises he is ok but it has sent my anxiety levels sky high.
What a cruel, sad place the world is at times!!
Would appreciate a hug please.