The_Next_Step
18-06-11, 18:28
Hi all
My life is getting to complicated for me to handle and just wanted all of your opinions on what to do really please here are my problems so far:
1. My father who mentally and physically abused me from the age of continues to stalk me either in the car or on foot passing our house.
2. My mother who chose her whore of a sister instead of me from 2009 is now continuously asking me for forgiveness and says she hardly sees her sister any more but I know that is a lie and she kept telling me when I was only a child that she always wanted a daughter instead of a son constantly! So in a way she has got her wish.
3. My 80 year old grandparents who I live with are really starting to annoy me mainly because they are forgetting simple things such as what ingredients to use when cooking a meal, forgetting what you told them 20 minutes ago, their cutlery, crockery and cooking utensils still have traces of leftover food on them from the previous nights meal even after they have hand washed them and last but not least disturbing me when I am either entering or exiting the bathroom to do my ablutions or disturbing me when I am trying to sort out my life.
4. Since 2008 we have had boy racers on our once quiet residential estate spending 13 hours a day even on a Sunday! Just constantly driving around our estate revving their engines loudly (hearing it through double glazed windows!!) and sometimes racing each other and they are starting to harass us did the police have a word with them and pointed out our house to them? We contacted the police but they just said as it is a public road they have no restrictions and can make as much noise as they like to but we can always move to a different location? and I thought the police were supposed to stop disturbance of the peace?? So does this mean no one can live in a peace or in a quiet place anymore?
5. We are finding that our health is getting worse because of the volume of them, now we are getting motorbikes racing each other, the pollution is getting unbearable, the noise pollution is terrible, they are harassing us and we are finding that we are losing our freedom and especially privacy!!
What would you do in my position? I have thought about leaving home and renting a quiet place to live in but wouldn’t that make me a coward? And also would I be able to look after myself and live a better life? (I suppose this is the negative side and anxious side of me talking and scared of change).
Kind Regards,
The_Next_Step
My life is getting to complicated for me to handle and just wanted all of your opinions on what to do really please here are my problems so far:
1. My father who mentally and physically abused me from the age of continues to stalk me either in the car or on foot passing our house.
2. My mother who chose her whore of a sister instead of me from 2009 is now continuously asking me for forgiveness and says she hardly sees her sister any more but I know that is a lie and she kept telling me when I was only a child that she always wanted a daughter instead of a son constantly! So in a way she has got her wish.
3. My 80 year old grandparents who I live with are really starting to annoy me mainly because they are forgetting simple things such as what ingredients to use when cooking a meal, forgetting what you told them 20 minutes ago, their cutlery, crockery and cooking utensils still have traces of leftover food on them from the previous nights meal even after they have hand washed them and last but not least disturbing me when I am either entering or exiting the bathroom to do my ablutions or disturbing me when I am trying to sort out my life.
4. Since 2008 we have had boy racers on our once quiet residential estate spending 13 hours a day even on a Sunday! Just constantly driving around our estate revving their engines loudly (hearing it through double glazed windows!!) and sometimes racing each other and they are starting to harass us did the police have a word with them and pointed out our house to them? We contacted the police but they just said as it is a public road they have no restrictions and can make as much noise as they like to but we can always move to a different location? and I thought the police were supposed to stop disturbance of the peace?? So does this mean no one can live in a peace or in a quiet place anymore?
5. We are finding that our health is getting worse because of the volume of them, now we are getting motorbikes racing each other, the pollution is getting unbearable, the noise pollution is terrible, they are harassing us and we are finding that we are losing our freedom and especially privacy!!
What would you do in my position? I have thought about leaving home and renting a quiet place to live in but wouldn’t that make me a coward? And also would I be able to look after myself and live a better life? (I suppose this is the negative side and anxious side of me talking and scared of change).
Kind Regards,
The_Next_Step