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I also have this fear, and have had for a few years now. It's the first time i've come across people suffering the same thing and realise it's not just me! Mine anxiety is at it's worst when my husband is away with work and I feel like I have no control. It is the scariest feeling and I get to the point where I have to literally hold my tongue! I have read and read so many times that you CANNOT swallow your tongue, though while i'm having a panic attack I cannot rationalise this. I hope you find a way to deal with it successfully and if so, please share as I struggle with it daily and would do anything to overcome it. If anyone else has advice, would like to hear that also.Good Luck.
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I started with the tongue phobia 19 years ago and it left me for many many years, however it came back last year when i became quite poorly, and the result is now i have become so stressed that i have started sticking my tongue to the roof of my mouth and sucking. The result being i have stripped my tongue of everything, so now it is bruised and extremely sore, sadly i do this in my sleep so can't really do anything about it.
All i can say is i've never heard of anyone dying from swallowing their tongue, but i do know that this is a common phobia.
di xx
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I have had this problem when I was 9yo it left me for many years and came back when I was 27ish, it's very scary when it happens, I get it at night when I lay on my back, or when I drive or even ride my bicycle fast, I feel like my tongue is going to slid down my throat or contract and then go down, I do also have GAD or Panic Disorder seen a psychiatrist and he can't decide either way, I am also Agoraphobic and my fear of swallowing my tongue while driving is what made me panic outside my house 13 years ago and was a major reason for me becoming agoraphobic among other things, anyway to my good news while watching a tv show about phobias people where asked to stay in the situation like in a room with spiders or whatever there phobia was until the anxiety passed, I was at a point in my life at the time when anxiety panic attacks and this fear of swallowing my tongue had me in a very bad way, I was sure I would have this problem forever and nothing will ever be done about it.
When I felt as thought my tongue was going to go down ( which was easy to do just thinking about it is enough) I lay on my back on the couch and watched tele, as I did this I let the feeling happen and I just lay there in the moment and let myself suffer the sensation as there was noting I could do about it if I didn't lay there, except wait for it to pass this was well worth a try, it worked I still have the problem and get the feeling at night it's never as bad as it used to be and doesn't happen at often, I would say I am 90% improved which has changed my life for the better, also the psychiatrist did reassure me that I wouldn't swallow my tongue.
Give it a try...
Manti.
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Huntj
I have the tongue swallowing phobia - I know that it is impossible to do but sadly my mind wants me to believe that it is real.....and it plagues me every day....I also have difficulty's swallowing.......depending on the severity.....I get to the point where I am too scared to eat......my anxiety has been with me for 20 years.....and it comes and goes........I eat a very healthy diet......but have found over the years that I do not cope well with stress......I need to keep totally active that way I spend less time thinking about my phobia.......I am currently taking a homeopathic remedy......
Hi, I am also suffering from this condition. I have had many years of stress and anxiety, I always find it worse under these conditions. I avoid "chewy" food as I feel like I will choke when trying to swallow the food. I am looking into having hypnotheraphy to re-educate my mind into more relaxed state and hopefully I won't associate the choking feeling with swallowing.
I shall let you know how I get on once I have started hypnotheraphy.
It does help knowing other's have this same problem - even though I do not wish it on anyone. :)
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renjacste
I also have this fear, and have had for a few years now. It's the first time i've come across people suffering the same thing and realise it's not just me! Mine anxiety is at it's worst when my husband is away with work and I feel like I have no control. It is the scariest feeling and I get to the point where I have to literally hold my tongue! I have read and read so many times that you CANNOT swallow your tongue, though while i'm having a panic attack I cannot rationalise this. I hope you find a way to deal with it successfully and if so, please share as I struggle with it daily and would do anything to overcome it. If anyone else has advice, would like to hear that also.Good Luck.
Hi, I just thought I would send you a quick reply - just to say I do know how you feel - I have also suffered with this fear for many years (off and on), usually gets worse when stressed (stress has been an issue for quite a few years). I am looking into hypnotheraphy for this as I have heard it has good success rates. I will let you know what I think once started the sessions.
Let me know how you are coping if you like.
Regards Jenny.
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Hi,
I am so sorry to read about everyone's fears, but I suffer from this condition myself.
I really have been in a bad way for a few years now. I am irrationally fearful of swallowing my tongue. I have had many visits to A&E, with my boyfriend thinking I am dying (because I have told him I am dying and pleading with him to help me).
I have spent many many hours in front of the mirror, checking my tongue for swelling, and,literally holding my tongue because I am scared of losing it down my throat. It causes me to panic in a very scary way. I cannot describe my fear.
In a lot of circumstances, I feel my tongue is numb, so i cannot know if it will slide down my throat without me knowing, causing me to panic and run around screaming like a mad thing.
As you can imagin, this has led me to become less and less sociable. I am constantly looking at other people, wondering how they can live and breathe normally, and it causes me great distress.
I have been seeing my Dr here in the UK for over 3 years about my problem. I had never known of any other sufferers until now. I have been taking Valium for 3 years to help me sleep, but before the 15mg perday that my Dr prescribed, i was buying Valium just to put me to sleep, as I couldn't bear to be awake and think about my tongue/choking/dying while I was awake.
It led me to severe agoraphobia, and I then started drinking a lot because I needed to blot myself out...it was either that or go crazy from the horrific panics I had.
I still take valium every day as prescribed, but it is not the answer. So, when I panic, I cannot eat and tell my boyfriend I need to drink a glass of wine to relax me ( not healthy, but true)...and I can then down a bottle of wine easily, just to stop my panic attacks from the numb tongue.
So, I drink a bottle of wine most nights, or I am subjected to the demon looming over me, telling me I will die tonight. I use the valium during the day, and often drink 'Night Nurse'...(for colds) to blot me out.
It is a sorry and horrific existence, but I have tried psycotherapy, psychiatry, acupuncture, and hypnotherapy. The hypnotherapists have told me I am untreatable, which basically leaves me thinking " Oh my Lord, i am doomed to this forever". I haven't ever had a break through with orthodox methods either.I have thought about taking my life, as I cannot live like this much longer, can u help me somebody? Thank you for reading my story.
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wow yet another thing that i thought was only meand guess what loads of us get it. it seems worse at night for some reason ,i find that sucking a sweet helps, i use murray mints,or if its really bad have to get up and do something like watch tv then it goes. The other thing is unable to swallow which is also horrible.
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Molly,
You cannot swallow your tongue.................
Once i let my mind believe that and truly believed it, the fear left me, it has gone.
Life is always worth living hun, it is a case of retraining your brain, instead of you thinking omg i'm gonna swallow my tongue, you need to keep saying, i cannot swallow my tongue it is impossible.
di xx
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Hi - This is my first post, too scared to up until now, but the throat constricting thing is my big panic thing at the moment. I am convinced my throat will totally close over which makes me panic more, which makes it worse, which makes me panic more and so the cycle continues......
I know when the panic attack finally subsides that it was due to the panic that it felt that way but during a panic as we all know rational thoughts disappear!
My husband is fabulous and alway talks me through them and helps me to breathe, the unwavering support of someone you trust is so important, but he travels alot. I handle it very badly when he goes away, almost to the point of begging him not to go. I just about hold onto myself when he goes away and totally collapse when he gets back!
It so easy to say calm down and relax, and believe me I try and I am sure you do too, buts its so damn hard. So I know how you feel and hope that with the course of CBT I am starting on Wednesday things will start to improve. Biggest step I have ever taken so wish me luck and I wish you all the luck in the world too.
xxx
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Hi, if this helps at all, I read that it is physically impossible to swallow your tongue. I have never, ever heard of someone swallowing their tongue. I never heard of someone who even came close to doing so. Your tongue is attached to the bottom of your mouth so you would need to suffer a very grave (and anatomically impossible) injury to detach it.