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Done a lot of thinking today and know that talking to Graham wont be as easy as i thought as there are still a lot of feelings there. But on the other side i do know that i need to do it so we can sort out how it is now. Anything has to be better than it is now.
Realised that i might get upset but if he takes that the wrong way that is his problem and not mine.
Dreading seeing him after the way i felt on tuesday but also know i need to say my bit and move on.
Thanks for all the support.
Love Sal xxxxx
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Hope today goes better for you sal.
MS
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Hi Sal
We both know it is not easy to get over feelings for someone when we thought they were our whole life. It is only natural to get upset.
I understand your need for closure and I hope you are able to talk to him to allow you to move on. Just be careful, you don't want to open yourself up for more hurt.
I hope today is better for you.
Love
Briary xx
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Thanks for your support everyone.
Had a good talk with my friend at work last night and she says i definately need to talk to him to put the closure to the situation.
She also reminded me that at the start when we broke up i didnt want to talk to him as i felt i couldnt cope with it and she did ask him to keep away from me.
But she reckons i should do it on neutral ground and not let him come here because she doesnt trust him not to worm his way back in. Plus she isnt very happy that he did take advantage of me when the relationship first started as i was quite ill then and he made me rely totally on him and no one else.
I am sure we will get it all sorted soon.
Love Sal xxxxx
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Sounds like a good plan. Thinking of you.
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Hi Merlin
Meant to post you earlier to thank you for your last post, but better late than ever.
Suppose i have to go for it and however much it hurts get it out in the open and sort it out.
Know i will find it hard but cant carry on how it is.
Just pleased i could talk to Barbara last night and she made me see sense.
Will keep you all posted and let you know how it is going.
Thanks.
Love Sal xxxxx
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It sounds like it's a case of better out than in, as it's obviously preying on your mind. ANd Barbara sounds like a good friend to have, someone who can inject some objectivity into it all. Anyway, take care. You are a strong person and you can handle this. *hugs*
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Thanks Merlin
I am sure it will sort out just hopefully soon rather than later.
Love Sal xxxxx