Re: I found no help in this website
The chat room is a great place. They have always helped me. I know you are suffering and it's easy to lash out but give it a good chance. The chats can be very busy sometimes and people can have multiple chats at once. Maybe there was a misunderstanding somewhere?
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Yes the topics help and you can locate what your problems might be but I have had no feedback from posts from other sufferers. I was really quite hopeful to talk to other people like me that the system fails to help and get some advice but unfortunately have found nothing, another brick wall
You had a reply to your one post, sometimes people don’t feel able to respond this is a site for sufferers run by other sufferers. This is not a system.
After this post you have had many responses offering you help and support.
Thankyou for the support, really appreiated. I stopped taking citopram after a week as it made my anxiety alot worse, the propranolol helps with panic if I have to leave the house as this is difficult at this time, perhaps I should just pull myself together, there are people starving, wars I have no right to feel like this.[/B]
Citalopram usually takes a minimum of 6 weeks to work and you often feel worse before you feel better your Doctor should have advised you of this? Abandoning it after 1 week is unwise without GP consultation.
Here’s a thought, I have been a Mum since 17 now 45, I saw what parents destruction can do and believe me my kids needs have always come far above mine, but what if now they are grown and I have done my job as a parent that I’m might actually harm them more by staying alive, I watched my Father slowly destroy my family, am I not doing the same?
[]I watched my parents destroy my childhood and themselves, my mother committed suicide when I was 9 yrs old. My kids needs have always come before mine. Where did you think your job was done as they are grown? By being there you are ensuring that you family will be ok, as you have always done. Do you think because they are grown they will not be devastated by your loss?[/
I need to be strong, get back to work, or maybe just say sod it you aint going to beat it and stop this endless pain, I have raised two fine sons I had my brother blame me for my Mum dying a Father that wished me dead at 14 'just die'. yepits fine I can do this
Yes you can do this because deep down you know you are not responsible for someone else’s demise, they just needed someone to blame at the time.
Do not use the chat room on this site, people are rude, not understanding and frankly insulting
Frankly Sam66 I was in the chat room while you were there, you chose to be insulting to the members in there; they asked you several times if you were ok and did you want to talk? Much more than you would received in the 3D world especially considering how hostile you were to them. There are so many members here that could provide you with help and support but you need to open up and trust them first? No one is going to come and beat down a closed door to help you, you have to be willing to open the door to receive the help and support you so obviously need.
I watched my brother die, shoes still matter
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and for those of you reading with no experience of the chat room, I doubt I would have made it without the help and support of the members here
Re: I found no help in this website
Lynnann
I do not post on the forum very often - but i wanted to say what a lovely, helpful and considered post that was.
ANY
PS shoes are always important ;0)
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Thank you ANY,
I don't post often these days, to be honest don't come here often these days. But I will thank Nic forever for setting up this site. It was my salvation through many dark days and is still here. Granted I had a lot of work and effort to do myself but I can honestly say I am nearly there :) and that is so much more than I thought possible a few years ago.
Lynnann:flowers:
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I'm off to buy some new shoes today.
Any tips?
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:)
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Yeah, spend as much as you can, enjoy the whole retail experience, make them slightly impractical if possible...but so lovely that you want to stick them on a table and stroke them when you are passing LOL
HTH
BTW not sure how the shoes discussion has got here, must be missing the point....anyway...happy to help. :roflmao:
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Well, I don't know how shoes came up but it seemed to be an issue in the chat room (which I have never been in - I've stood outside the door but always too afraid to enter :unsure:).
Stroking shoes sounds mildly perverted but i do that with certain items of clothing:blush:...however I was once told never to put shoes on a table - it's bad luck.
There's something else to worry about:D
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robinbrum
Well, I don't know how shoes came up but it seemed to be an issue in the chat room (which I have never been in - I've stood outside the door but always too afraid to enter :unsure:).
be afraid be very afraid :)....................... nah no need to be afraid at all come on in it is a good place to distract your self from things going on around you and you can just sit and watch for a while if you want to............everyone is very friendly we are definitely not 'rude, not understanding and frankly insullting' well most of us anyway
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You aren't rude and insulting??....see that would have drawn me in.....now I know you are all too nice I won't bother coming. :roflmao:
Ah new shoes on tables, opening umbrellas inside the house, going under ladders (mind that one is quite sensible); I laugh in the face of old wives tales I'm afraid. I used to be paranoid about them, but a number of years ago I decided to flout all those myths and do all of them all the time. Infact there are often new shoes on my tables (not old dirty ones you understand)....try it robinbrum....it is quite liberating !! :roflmao:
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You aren't rude and insulting??....see that would have drawn me in.....now I know you are all too nice I won't bother coming. :roflmao:
Ah new shoes on tables, opening umbrellas inside the house, going under ladders (mind that one is quite sensible); I laugh in the face of old wives tales I'm afraid. I used to be paranoid about them, but a number of years ago I decided to flout all those myths and do all of them all the time. Infact there are often new shoes on my tables (not old dirty ones you understand)....try it robinbrum....it is quite liberating !! :roflmao:
we could try to be rude and insulting in there if it would be helpful to anyone:roflmao:
The shoes bit I am totally lost with that convesation haha i think the phrase 'you had to be there' comes to mind haha
Carys you stay away from the tv you may get square eyes, eat up those carrots you will be able to see in the dark and most definitely get those shoes off the table :roflmao::roflmao::roflmao: