Is this your website and are you a forum admin? I wasn't aware that there were specific rules - why cant someone offer / ask for reassuarance?
I get you probably label yourself as a "realist" but fear of this kind of thing is crippling for some people. Your previous responses seem to be completely devoid of any empathy. Please try to put yourself in the shoes of others, if you cannot formulate your opinions in a manner that takes this into account, then please (for the sake of others who might be mentally tied up in knots with fear when this kind of stuff hits the media) - dont say anything.