Hey Wayne,
Most members are here because they are struggling too. We are all in this together kind of thing.
I think the reason people are suggesting calling someone is because they are people that are qualified to assist with your specific current problem. Not because people don't want to help you.
This site is for support but its generally here to support people who want to beat their anxieties and depression. At the moment it seems you don't want to beat it which is why people are referring you to an organisation that specifically assists with people that are in a situation like yours.
I hope this makes sense. I would strongly suggest you give them a call. They are far more qualified than anyone here.
Coli