:bighug1:For pulisa x
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:bighug1:For pulisa x
All the hugs for Pulisa.
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Has something happened to pulisa? I truly hope not or is this just a general :bighug1: as she is always here to help others?
Here's one from me :bighug1:
I was just going to ask that Matt :unsure:
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Sending lots of positive thoughts and hugs your way Pulisa x I hope everything is okay :hugs::flowers:
I’ve always got hugs for Pulisa. I hope you’re ok lovely xx
Thinking of you Pulisa x :hugs:
:hugs: and some :flowers: for pulisa. I hope everything is ok for you and your family x
Thank you so much to everyone xxx
I don't really want to say too much but it's about my son who is now being seen by the crisis team on a daily basis. Things got as bad as they could have but I can't fault the access he has to NHS acute mental health care.
I can't really believe this is happening but have to. At least I can understand the torment.
Thank you again xxxxx
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Oh my Pulisa, you've certainly had a bucketful this year.
Sending you more hugs :bighug1:
Bless you Pulisa. You will find strength to get through this. We have an inner core of steel that serves us when we need it.
Sending you huge hugs and extra ones for your son too.:bighug1:
I’m really pleased your son is getting help. I will be thinking of you with lots of love xx
I really appreciate all the support but just wanted to say that it's probably best for me to stay away from here until things are better. I certainly don't want to trigger anyone because we are all vulnerable. It's been an awful year. My son will eventually be discharged back to the community mental health team provided I can keep him safe. It's a huge responsibility but I will make sure he gets better.
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BUddy, I had no idea at all, and I'm so so sorry to hear of this struggle. You know you can email me if ever you want !
Really sorry to hear your son is having a very bad time, pulisa :hugs: A huge responsibility but I think that's been the story of your life and you always handle it.
I wouldn't worry about triggering others on here, they can click the x and avoid a thread, this is about you so if you need to then talk without feeling guilty about it because I'm sure we would all agree all that matters her is you & and your family. But totally up to you and if you need distance, that's best for you.
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Oh Pulisa, while I don't know the whole story- I just want to say I have recently been through something like your son. My Mother was a wonderful support, you are such a lovely person. You are truly so kind and giving, I know this will be hard but sending very single possible thought and wish your way xxx :hugs:
You are all very kind and supportive but the truth is that I am out of my depth here and am struggling to see how I can cope and juggle both my children's needs. I'll have to find a way somehow and it's early days. He starts new meds today so must stay hopeful!!
Thank you all so much xxx
Oh pulisa,we are in this together.:bighug1:
It IS a huge responsibility Pulisa, but I have no doubts about your capabilities, especially knowing what you have been through knowing you for the last five years plus. It never seems to stop does it? The challenges, the worries, the pain. And you can't help but wonder why some people go through life plain sailing with not a worry in the world.
It's a challenge Pulisa. Just look at it like that. You are good at challenges, despite what you say about not being as strong as people think you are.
Don't bottle up your emotions, let them out. If you are angry, then go and thump a pillow or let out a long Grrrrrrrr and if you need to have a moment of a few tears, just watch 'The Pride of Britain' on this week.
What I'm trying to say is although your attention is on your son and your daughter as well, take time to deal with your emotions too. If you feel you are alone then pop on this thread to pick up a hug or two or lean on our shoulders.
Without the support on here, I wouldn't achieve half of what I do. So be kind to yourself and allow others to help you:hugs: x
Thank you Carnation. I'm not feeling very capable at the moment. I just can't concentrate or sit still for long- I'm used to living with this but it's worse now. I think it's to be expected though in view of everything xx
Pulisa, I think you've got to expect to feel agitated and restless. Your body and mind is on the ready for action.
You have a situation which seems presently out of your control, but at the same time you are very much involved in the process.
Personally I think you need to vent as much as you need on this thread. You need support and comfort and maybe a little advice here and there.
You don't have to suffer alone.
Try to keep your normal routine as much as you can, make some plans for Christmas to keep the positivity going and the moments you have to yourself find some good things to watch on tv or surf YouTube for calming Apps before you go to bed. x :hugs:
You will need strength, tenacity and fortitude - characteristics you possess, Dear Cmrd P. But there is also only so much within your own control.
I really hope for the best and you always know where I am if needed.
Sending much love :D
You are right in that I can't control how things will go and it's all very unpredictable at this stage, KK. I can only try my best to keep him safe but ultimately I have no say in the matter. I can only hope that things will get better. Thanks so much for your support xx
Carnation, I know how important my own routine is to me and how little things matter. I couldn't survive without having these as a support when times are tough xx
A very tough day today and crisis team and newly allocated CPN coming tomorrow. It's ironic that my son now has access to the CMHT whereas my daughter has zilch input because she falls between special needs and mainstream services. Good job they don't know about my demons!!:)
Yes, might be wise to keep your demons under wraps for the time being. Tough days are just that, but they pass. Although you have another one tomorrow, it seems to be moving fast so that at least is a good thing.
I expect there's alot of pacing and agitated status, but at least you don't have to wait until next week or month for that matter.
I know it's difficult, but try to keep positive. x
Yes I know it's a good thing that things are happening quickly and it's reassuring to know that acute care services really are acute when needed.
I'm certainly not going to mention my own issues-they wouldn't be interested anyway. Every day is a major challenge at the moment but I'm still standing!:)
If Elton John can do it, you can too Pulisa. x
Hi Pulisa, I don’t have much to offer right now but thinking of you , the feeling of being out of control with your family is the worst , you will find the strength to get him through as you have before .
Take care :bighug1:
:bighug1:Keep standing pulisa, I just heard that song,Always look on the Bright Side of Life.Xxx
Sending you love pulisa❤❤
Hope things make a swift change very soon.
Hope you’re doing as well as can be. And that your son is receiving the best of care x
Thank you for all these kind and supportive messages. Tough times but things will get easier in time xx
Pulisa, maybe you should have 'I'm still standing' as your new ringtone? :winks:
Pulisa is made of stern stuff, and I have no doubt that she will come through this just fine. Overriding all of her own personal 'glitches' is the strongest of maternal bonds, the strongest of ethical/moral care for those struggling and an unequalled ability to keep on putting those she loves first. In time, I hope you have time to sit back and care for you P. (I feel like I've just written a school report for you P, but I wanted to say it).
Agent P has the highest level of agent training an agent could wish for and actually runs our Agents for Dummies course :wacko:
I think I might enrol for a refresher course in that, KK!:D My interrogation resistance skillz are still pretty ace though-years of practice!
Thank you so much for my "school report", Carys-best one I've ever had!! I have given them both such a crappy genetic "gift" so it's up to me to go all out to make things better for them if I can xx
Just checking to see how you are doing Pulisa
Maybe out of sight, but not out of mind. x
That's very kind of you, Carnation. To be honest I'm completely knackered trying to guide my son through the horrors of a new med with severe anxiety and depression and keeping my daughter away from the worst of it which terrifies the life out of her. So far I'm failing with my son but keeping my daughter just about going. I suspect my son may have a form of PTSD which is keeping him locked in a time which still is intensely painful and traumatic for him many months after the event but I don't want to underplay true PTSD.
I haven't forgotten it's nearly your birthday though.....:Dxx