Re: Actual Sexual Feelings!?
I would recommend this book, it’s brilliant at explaining intrusive thoughts and goes into detail on sexual intrusive thoughts in particular and the stimulating effects on the body. Knowing how your mind works often helps a great deal.
Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts: A CBT-Based Guide to Getting Over Frightening, Obsessive, or Disturbing Thoughts
Re: Actual Sexual Feelings!?
It's pretty normal imo. If we knew what people were actually thinking we'd be very shocked. People don't really talk about it or mention it so when it happens it's easy to think it's not normal.