Re: This is her last chance!
I can feel you so much. . .
I don't think the letter gets offensive or anything so as long as these are your thoughts just go for it. :)
All best!
Re: This is her last chance!
thank you. i know i needed the right balance of honesty with the right words so she wont get defensive xxx
Re: This is her last chance!
i think its a nice honest letter to your mum and i hope she sees sense and treats you how you want to be treated i really hope you get the outcome you want good luck :) if your mum blows her chance then its her mums loss on a strong supportive loving daughter x
Re: This is her last chance!
that is a very good letter and you put a lot of thought into your letter. go for it. thinking of you.
Re: This is her last chance!
thank you :) honestly these comments make me feel stronger and feel like im actually worth something. I just dont want mum to see the letter as an attack or a "sympathy" note. she is constantly saying im just wanting people to feel sorry for me and that im making stuff up but i think she just feels so guilty about some of the things she has put me through that she just convinces herself it never happened and then she just blames everything on me but i just cant cope with that anymore xxx
Re: This is her last chance!
Well done for writing that letter, it has taken a lot of courage.
You are right about respect, it works both ways, you have to give to receive.
Hopefully she will understand how sad you feel when she reads it.
I hope you will both be able to repair your relationship with each other.
take care:hugs:
Re: This is her last chance!
I think you have expressed your feelings really well in your letter, and it is a great idea to send it to your Mother. Often letters are read several times through, and hopefully your Mother will reflect long and hard on the words you have written, and realise how much you need her love, and how much love you have to give too. :hugs:
Re: This is her last chance!
I think that you've done the right thing by writing that letter and I really do wish for the best outcome to come from all of this as I know that you've really been struggling the last few months.
I wish you the best of luck hun, if you need me, feel free to message me as always.
All the best,
Becky