Originally Posted by
Catherine S
They're not all 'petty' though are they. Some people can be really mean and bullying, and I thought it was the role of the admins to stop that kind of behaviour...it's what admins on any forum have to deal with. I mean...if you aren't monitoring people, what's the point?
You always say there's alot going on in the background and I believe you and sympathise fully and appreciate all you do in the background, but part of the role of a forum administrator is actually controlling what's happening on the boards. There used to be alot of admins and moderators at one time, but now there are only a few so I know it's difficult, particularly since the forum has grown so much.
I personally very seldom report anything to the admins...hardly ever in fact unless its absolutely necessary, because it's not always possible to cope with bullying without back-up, because often it can develop into much more than a petty squabble. Sometimes we need your help. Please don't make us feel guilty for that.
Just my thoughts,
Cath x