That's great! Unfortunately, you have to accept that there isn't a quick fix for this one, and seeking reassurance will only slow your progress down as it reinforces the idea that there's something to be afraid about.
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That's great! Unfortunately, you have to accept that there isn't a quick fix for this one, and seeking reassurance will only slow your progress down as it reinforces the idea that there's something to be afraid about.
This has been said several times and even this acknowledgement feeds the dragon. There are also members doing so via PMs (I refused to enable). Sadly, again, this is the same pattern many serial posters use to feed their dragon.Quote:
seeking reassurance will only slow your progress down as it reinforces the idea that there's something to be afraid about.
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I’m logging off this for a week and hopefully that will stop me asking for reassurance on here!
Thank you to those who have understood me
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You can cut it out. Sometimes the best advice you can give somebody in your situation is just pull yourself together. Not always, but sometimes.
I'm glad you've logged off the week, perhaps this should be a regular thing every time you start serial assurance seeking.
I completely agree and well done to Jonny for logging off and staying off