Feeling like a failure turning 30 next month

Hi all,

Im a long standing member on this forum but I mainly post with my health anxiety worries.

I’m 29 and turning 30 in June , and I’m not sure if it’s the turning 30 crisis that a lot of people have but I am really feeling so down about it.

I am not in a relationship , so not even close to marriage or kids or anything like that - I feel like I’m behind all my friends are either engaged or pregnant.

I’ve never really had social anxiety so I’m not sure why I haven’t met anyone I guess it’s just not happened for me yet and I have had no luck .

I feel like I’m stuck in a rut and really need to get out of it or I will never move on with my life