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Thanks for your input Elen. I have no idea what the protocol for barring is and I've not spoken up for myself to an admin until now. I still stand by my comments and refer to venus coming across as curt and angry with my name at the top.
Yes, we all have our troubles and other work, I was a carer 24/7 for a decade, but still found time to answer people and help as well as battle my own life.
I know admins have to have an authority approach, but personally think it should be when it is appropriate, otherwise it defeats the object of what the Site stand for and is confusing to some members. Any authority status can be abused and applied to certain individuals.
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Noivous, I'm genuinely sorry to hear the news about your father. My friend, you do not need the extra stress and tension with backlash from this thread or my life.
I have received your pm and will chat to you later. x
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I'm so sorry Noivous :hugs:you are amazingly strong being there for your dad :hugs:
your a wonderful person :hugs:
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But on the lighter side I think I'm getting a haircut today finally.
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i could not be arsed to cook so got fish and chips and they sent a pile of chips, enough to last me all week *leaves a big pile of chips in the thread for all to help yourselfs* :hugs:
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I am closing this thread before it gets out of hand, that was not my intention. The title of the thread was a genuine inquiry. I will speak by pm to members if they wish. x
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Well, I would if I knew how. Never been in this position before.
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If you really wish it closed I can do that for you Carnation.
Just let me know if you are sure.
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Carnation - Sorry you are having a rubbish time of at the minute, it is awful while we are in the thick of things. I promise I didn't mean anything against you by quoting your post, it was just the one that said best what i wanted to reply to, it wasn't having a go at you at all...
I think someone else has said, the internet is very black and white. when someone posts something online people can either take it in the way it is meant or read the wrong things into it...... It always happens... if I was stood infront of you saying the same things that I typed you would also have my body language and vocal tone which would make you realise that it wasn't a reply aimed at you and a bad reply in any way at all..... The internet is brilliant, but it can also be a cause of disagreements because of that
We are all stuck at home (apart from working) life is so much different to normal at the mintue.......but the sun is shining and it is rather warm, which to me makes life feel a little better.
I am not sure why you would think I would want to ban you from the site.... I really don't the thought never crossed my mind and never would.
Things in no way work like that... no admin would ever just ban you from the forum, there is a procedure to that... which starts with a PM to the member and then has many steps before anyone is banned...unless you fancy learning korean and spamming the site with spam about online casinos, then I would ban you straight away..... but as I am 100% sure you won't do that you are completely safe :roflmao:
Have a good evening, I hope you start to feel better mentally soon.
Emmz