Hi Karen
I am so sorry you did not get a definitive answer. I know this is not supportive, but I do not know if they truly know what your NEEDS and WANTS truly are. You do hun, that is the difference.
I feel like I am hitting my head against a brick wall and I so feel your anger and frustration.
I appreciate I am new to NMP but I am not knew to eating disorders. All I can think is sit tight and keep your fingers crossed that they will understand you. Trust me hun, starving is not the answer, it brings pure misery and death eventually.
You ARE fighting a system and you need to stay strong in your resolve.
Take lots of care.
Love Fran XX