Love isnt a weak thing, its the most powerful force in the universe. Its really strong and robust and I think it should never be dilluted in any way...I think its best to keep it strong and let it flow like a river. I found that when I did that there was no fear left...Just happy memories of all the good things we all did for each other, and a love that can never die. I hope im making sense to you. I know its hard to love somtimes, but ...well...go out into the street and ask 100 people what the most important thing is in life (or what is the meaning of life) and im sure most of them will respond with the word 'love'. I really believe love is the reason we are all here, its the highest standard to reach for.
If we love with everything we have we will never have any real regrets because its the highest and greatest.
Very well put, Mr.Panic! I do agree with you ...... but hannah, I also know that when you are in the middle of one of those attacks, holy moly, it's very hard to see things differently, all you see and feel is fear! But, perhaps, if you began now to think more positively, over a period of time (not right away) maybe your perspective might change, so that when you DO have another panic attack, you can talk yourself out of it ..... what I've noticed is that I might keep having these attacks (hopefully not), but what's important is that I can deal with them, that I can somehow manage them .... so that it won't totally cripple me. Like I said, learning to "manage' panic or anxiety is something that takes time, so maybe a little everyday .... you can begin to tell yourself "I'm ok", or "it'll be alright", or "I can handle things"...whatever. I noticed for myself, that if I did that, more and more everyday, I sort of gained more of a feeling of SELF EMPOWERMENT, and didnt' feel so "UNDER" that panic ...do you see?
I have a feeling, that many of us, may feel that we dont' have control in our lives, or that we lack SELF EMPOWERMENT ... now obviously I can't speak for anyone else....but I can speak for myself ...... I am not a timid person at all, but for some reason, DEEP DOWN I think I lack the feeling of SELF EMPOWERMENT over life ....so, once I realized that, it was like realizing the ROOT of the problem .... if we don't get to the ROOT of why we have these attacks, how will we be able to conquer them?
So....that is what I'm doing .... :I'm trying to figure out the root problem, and hope that will help ... in the meantime, the xanax is never far away! LOL.......I do hope you're feeling better by now .....