this morning when i was in bed with my girlfriend i had my arm around her and she had hers on top of my arm and because of my anxiety and depression i cant feel or be happy about things for long period time maybe lasts a few mins if that, but anyway as i couldnt feel or think it was cute that her arm was on top of mine i got all anxious and started getting unwanted thoughts they were getting stronger and i get unwated gay thoughts, i have nothing against gays etc i have had gay experiences in the past which was before i had a girlfriend i think but now with my anxiety and depression and ocd which i think i do have i get these recurring experiences in my head and once they are there its hard to get rid of or forget them, just like i cant feel happy with my girlfriend and feel like i dont love her etc etc its hard to stop thinking about them everything seems really hard, i was writing her christmas card earlier and i felt like i couldnt put love you on it and felt like as if a didnt love her but i do, i keep saying to her why is this happening to me i dont feel i am going to get better or be myself again and she says i will be ya need to be positive but its so hard so be positive and say i will get better i will be happy again etc etc because it feels like i am lying to myself about loving her and not these stupid unwated gay thoughts, everything i so hard how am i gona get help and change and be happy again to actually feel instead of knowing i love my girlfriend :( and all negative unwated thoughts, even when i look at the telly or see another person like a girl i get things in my head like shes nice etc or look at her arse but i feely guilty then and i tell my girlfriend and she says i dunno why you tell me but i tell her and said this to her its because i feel guilty i say to her because when i look at other girls an get a feeling inside dunno if its a shock feeling or what i dont get that with my girlfriend and i said to her maybe thats because thats wrong in liking another girl because i cant because am not single nor do i want anyone else besdies my girlfriend, scared that my mind will go off and think about these girls when am with my girlfriend and then go off my girlfriend, people do come up in my head when am with my girlfriend exs and that and i dunno why, everything feels so hard i just wanna sleep and never wake up until i have no problems and i can enjoy being and seeing my girlfriend like actually feel it instead of knowing or wanting to, even when men are on the telly or ya see gay people i will think or feel am gay or it will bring up my past bad experiences which i do regret that happened even though yet again it feels like i dont regret it !!! even if theres a man on the telly an ye he might look nice as in you could say he probably gets the girls yano i dont wanna think of this crap, all i want is a normal life which is to be happy am not asking or much just wanna be normal be happy have no stuff in my mind not over think not have anxiety and depression, i wanna back to being how i used to be with my girlfriend as in feeling happy etc feelings happy with everything i do why is that so hard? am not asking much, i also do feel what if i dont love my girlfriend, what if i am gay ? i get scared that i cant control my mind, i even have unwanted things in my mind to hit my girlfriend etc but i dont but am scared that i may not be able to control myself and mind, scared incase a gay situation does come up and something does happen, scared incase i do have to split up with my girlfriend i just hope this is anxiety which i keep telling my girlfriend and she says it is, its just so hard to think that its not anxiety and depression but also maybe anxiety and depression does make it seem hard to think its anything but that, sometimes i can lay or sit here and i will say f..k off out my head to things i dont want there sometimes i feel so tired and drained to just not say anything in my head when they come because it does feel so tiring because its over and over again, why is this happening to me why :(:( i will get back to being myself again wont i ? :(