Whenever My wife says she has indigestion or heart burn I get a hit of fear and go inside myself and begin worrying about what will happen if she is ill or terminally ill. My worry is the symptoms that hit me like a brick wall really worry me. She does not like going to the doctors for anything. She grin and bares it and does not really talk about symptoms or medical issues. I think this is true but as I have anxiety it may be that my level of talking about and seeing the docs is very high in comparison. May be she is normal and I over react with everything but I do not know. I feel my anxiety is preferred to her blasé attitude the only problem is the stress it can put my body under.
If something really did happen I really fear how I would cope with my three young boys??
Can anyone help me who has any experience of this.
Mee