For those of you on venlafaxine, I just wanted to share my experience. This week I went back to work after 2-3 months off with severe anxiety and depression and this drug I believe coupled with sheer determination has finally started to give me my life back. I'm still on the road to recovery and in hindsight I think I've probably been ill for a couple of years. This week I feel like the old me, the me I was when I first met my husband ten years ago, the me who was chilled out, the me who would do things without constantly thinking about how i feel. Dont get me wrong there are still times during the day when the glimmer of anxiety tries to overcome me but I can finally put those feelings to the back of mind rather than them taking over.
If the first anti-depressant you get offered doesn't work for you (for me it was Citalopram), don't give up, try something else til you find something that suits you.
Good luck everyone, you will get there x