I moved house in March, for the first time ever in my life, and though I was anxious to begin with, I settled down after a few nights. That is, until I got ill with a tummy bug or something and was really poorly throughout one entire night (causing major panic attacks & so on). Now, ever since then, I've been anxious every night in my new home - I have to keep to the same routine every night, to keep any sort of control over the anxiety. I read myself to sleep, keep the TV/DVD on all night, keep a bowl by my bed in case I'm ill, and leave the light on. I'm plagued by thoughts that I will need to run back to my parents' house because I'm ill again, but that I won't be able to get in because they will have left the key in the lock.
I keep telling myself that this is just a blip, and I'm carrying on with my life as much as possible - I'm going to work, eating an evening meal (though I often don't want to) etc. - but still every night I wish I was back home at my parents' house (I'm also generally very homesick, even without the anxiety), where I wouldn't feel too anxious to sleep or put my book down at nights. This has been going on for over 6 weeks now, and I'm losing faith that it can be just a blip - surely a blip can't last this long?!
Leah xx
--- Obstacles are what you see when you take your eyes off the goal.