Hey folks,
Hope you're all well. I haven't posted any updates on my experiences with Mirtazapine for a long time but have some strange news.
I was prescribed Mirtazapine in April 2011. I bascially broke down in the doctor's office after being on 20mg of Paroxetine for many years which didn't seem to be working anymore (it was a fantastic drug to begin with for me but for some reason just stopped working and made me feel constantly anxious)
I dropped out of work. I was drinking alcohol every night. Things were gloomy, very gloomy.
My main gripe was not being able to sleep without drinking a few beers or glasses of wine and this couldn't go on anymore. There was also 2 occassions where I felt suicidal.
So, I ended up telling the doctor about my problems.
The doctor prescribed me Mirtazapine (15mg) and asked me to go back after 2 weeks. The medication was ok to begin with, I felt no side effects and it definitely helped me stop drinking; which was fantastic. It didn't make me feel "happy" but the anxiety went away.
I went back after 2 weeks and she upped it to 30mg. I didn't argue, I never do with the docs - I take what I'm given in the hope that they know best.
I took the 30mg from May to December 2011. I felt good on it to begin with, my sleep was (and still is) cured, I got back into work (albeit a part time one) and life seemed to be better.
Then problems began around late October onwards. I developed extremely obsessive thoughts, something I had never encountered before. And these obsessive thoughts consisted of silly things, like wires being out of place behind the tv and other ridiculous things. But these thoughts DOMINATED my day-to-day life. If a thought went away about one thing, I'd then develop thoughts about another thing. And this went on and on and on. I looked forward to bed time every day just to get some peace.
On top of this, I started to feel detached from my wife and family. I didn't want her touching me in bed, I used to dread her getting home from work. And I've always had a very good relationship with my wife and love her dearly.
Then there was feeling like a zombie. The panic attacks had dissapeared. Completely. I could go anywhere or do anything but I felt absolutely no emotions. Didn't feel happy, didn't feel sad, couldn't even care if the football team I worship won or lost. Nothing.
So, around Christmas time, after a long chat with my wife, I decided to go back down to 15mg a day without even consulting my GP. I had nothing to lose, my life had become worthless. I constantly felt emotionless, and the obsessive thoughts were ruining my life.
I went back down to 15mg a day by cutting the tablets in half, and started doing this on New Year's Day (January 1st). Within the first few days, I immediately noticed that my mood had lifted but this could have been placebo effect. By the end of the second week, the obsessive thoughts had completely dissapeared. I have more energy again. But I also felt anxiety again and I'm avoiding things like the dentist or having to go to visit friends because of this, although it's nowhere near as bad as it was this-time-last-year.
I don't know what I'm setting out to achieve with this thread/post. Generally, my mood has been a lot better and I feel close to my wife again. The thoughts have gone, I no longer care about out-of-place wires behind the tv
I'm even feeling things going on in my head. It's strange, but I feel like I did when Paroxetine was starting to work back when I first started to take it. For example, I was laying on the sofa a few days ago and was filled with euphoria. I NEVER felt anything like this when I was on the 30mg. That amount just turned me into a zombie.
What is going on? Was I over-medicated before? I've read that 30-45mg is the "therapeutic level". But I'm feeling better on the 15mg in general and the anxiety I was feeling when I first reduced the dose a few weeks back, is slowly dissapearing (touch wood).