I am struggling quite a lot at the minute
Ok so some may remember me from a while back. I don't want to go into my story because its bloomin long but I really need some help at the minute.
So I suffer from depression, anxiety and OCD. At least I think its OCD, sometimes I just thing the thoughts etc are real and that I really am a bad person. My main problem/phobia is about children. I have always since a child been scared of them, from my family making fun of me when my cousin cried near me. I was petrified and then when I was near children I became angry because I was so scared of them, this is a feeling I have carried since childhood and still feel now occasionally. I don't want to be angry but I just feel it.
You know how those with health anxiety look up their symptoms on google and it makes them feel worse? Well I typed in google "I feel uncomfortable around children" and these forums came up where someone else had written the same thing. One person had written that he felt uncomfortable around children etc and that when he sees children he feels angry. Now I don't feel anger everytime and not even half the time usually only when im anxious and in a depressed state. Anyway he said that he's come to the conclusion that he doesn't want children and feels as though he wont meet a girl because all girls want to be mothers and have children. Now most replies were saying that he'll be ok, a lot of people feel uncomfortable around children and that not all women want children. Then there were a handful that said it was wrong for him to feel angry and that he should see a Dr and it seemed as though he was harmful! Needless to say I am a nervous wreck at the minute!
Is this right? Because I feel as though I only get angry because I am so scared and I don't want to feel scared so i feel anger at what is making me fear? Oh I don't know! Im just scared because I have to go back abroad in April! And if I slip into this fully I will be a wreck when I go back!
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