My story

[Juliet]

Hello everyone,
This is the first time I have been in a chat room EVER.Im not exactly a whiz on the pc,so hope my text does not offend any of you computer genius types.

I have been having problems with panic attacks for abou 2 years on and off to the point where i had to leave my job.I had a good career in nursing,but the nhs is definatly not the place to work if you are anxious or need to avoid stress!!

At first I was misdiagnosed by my gp,who thought my symptoms were related to a heart problem.I expect several of you can relate to this scenario?This made me more anxious and thinking up many weird and wonderful diseases i could have(medical knowledge clearly a disadvantage).Anyway i was eventually told that there was nothing wrong with me and started on antideprssants,although I think i was only depressed because my life had been put on hold,through basically "being scared of everything"!!I got to the stage where I couldnt go out AT ALL.I didnt want to see friends or relatives,and was convinced i would faint all the time.

However,with a combination of relaxation techniques,positive thinking,medication and bloody mindedness I am getting there.I started going out with family for very short periods and gradually built it up.I flew on holiday this year,and was fine(and I hate flying!!).I still have the odd bad day,but I feel so much more positive these days.I now want to get back to work.I think part of the trick is telling people too.No one thinks you are mad,in fact those who understand think folks like us are incredibly brave.Each day is a battle,but you can succeed.I just wanted to share my story with people who really understand. xx

[Meg]

Dear Juliet,

Your IT skills are great , certainly no cause for any concern there and even if you were not good it simply doesn't matter as you have countless other skills and none of us are good at everything.

Well done for having done so well yourself. Sounds like you're almost there.

Are you mulling over going back to work where you were before ? Would bank or agency be easier to start off with ?

Are you still on anything meds wise ?

You need to really congratulate yourself for doing so well.

Meg

[Juliet]

Thanks for the reply Meg,
What is your story?
I was actually working as a midwife before,but Im thinking of nursing again.I need to do a return to nursing course though first.So,I guess if I can get through that then I will have a better idea of what I am capable of....one step at a time!

Hope I am doing this reply thing right.Im very confused by all this.

[nomorepanic]

Hi Juliet

Your replying technique works and as for the computer skills I would say you are doing marvellous cos not people work out how to post a new topic.

I am so pleased to hear that things are going well for you - it is really nice when that happens and we get to hear about it here.

Keep in touch with us all here and let us know how it goes

Nicola

[Meg]

Hi Juliet,

How are you doing ?

Briefly , my story is that I started panics extremely suddenly but during a run of personal bereavements. 14 in one year, including both Dads and a relationship breakup of 12 years.
I was exhausted - doing 15 hr days , 300/400 miles a day, line managing 38 people and 4 projects but thought I was fine until the day I wasn't.

I had a month off which was virtually wall to wall panic for the first 2 weeks, then started to figure out what was up. GP put me on Prozac which did give me the readybrek glow but as soon as I took myself off it 4 months later , things reverted to not being great- not as bad as previously but not good.

A few months drifted past managing to stay at work but having quite a few limitations- not really changing anything and getting myself in a bad way and then I figured it out by extensive reading and research and now all is virtually Ok again.

I can't remember my last panic attack and although I still get anxiety , it's dealable with. I used to have to get Mum up from Sussex to stay when things were bad as I hated being alone endlessly- last time she came up it was a pre planned visit and we had a ball together. It was such a thrill !

. patience . proactiveness . positivity . persistance .

[ali2fly]

[V]hi, im not good with pc! only just learnt how to turn one on! your story sounds similar, except im cabin crew... who cant fly on my big stage anymore. dont enjoy going out. but still fighting! keep happy mate, your not on your own

hello. am suffering very bad anxiety. cant work.used to have job in travel, now not to happy to leave the house. for no apparent reason.

[Meg]

Ali,

Just as you're doing great on the PC , you'll do fine with your anxiety too.

It's all a case of education and practice. Not easy - granted - but doable just the same.


Meg

Watch your thoughts, they become your words...
Watch your words, they become your actions... Watch your actions, they become your habits... Watch your habits, they become your character... Watch your character, it becomes your destiny...

[benoo5]

hi ali,

as your a recent victim of panic,it hasent got a ..long term..hold on you,visit your doctor,if you already havent,he/she will probably prescribe short term relief for you,by way of tablets.

all airlines have a great personnel department,explain the problem,and maybe they can put you on short haul flights for you..ie.dublin..europe,etc,just so you can build up your lost confidence.

i dont believe in <flooding>, but i do believe in <gentle flooding>..read all the information available on this site,it will help you.

whatever you decide ali,do it now..not tomorrow,best wishes...bryan.

[paradise]

Hi Juliet, I am a nurse too, was diagnosed panic attack 3 mths ago, it really tears up my life, I can no longer work in my favorite ward as I fear the attack will come again.
Presenrly working in a hospice, which worsens my condition, hope to get contact with u. My e-mail is paradisechionh@yahoo.com.sg

[Meg]

Paradise,

Juliet doesn't log in very regularly so maybe if you want to reach her, you could email her through the site.

Click on her name and then on 'click to send email'.

What have you done in the last months to help your condition ?




Meg

Watch your thoughts, they become your words...
Watch your words, they become your actions... Watch your actions, they become your habits... Watch your habits, they become your character... Watch your character, it becomes your destiny...