Re: cant have a relationship
I think it's pretty normal for us to 'shut ourselves away' when we suffer with anxiety and panic. If this guy is a true friend, he will accept you for what you are. He may not totally understand what you are going through, but he does seem to care for you as your post would suggest. I agree with BobbyDog here, try and talk it over via email ot letter so that he has a better understanding of how you are feeling and why you are not always able to commit yourself to social situations. It's a tough one, but you shouldn't put your life on hold, we all need a really good friend sometimes, and actually they don't come along too often these days!! Good luck hun....
Kitti
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