Re: Feeling isolated
Hi,
Wow, I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a rough time...
I wanted to start by saying in a way, I actually feel very proud of you for what you're doing with your mum and your sister, what an achievement! Helping other people is an awesome thing to do, but when are you going to be able to take a step back and help yourself?
The worst thing you could do right now would be to drop out of university. It's not a waste of time and money, you're there to do something for yourself, for your independence. You just wait until you get that degree in your hand at the end of it all and you'll be in SUCH a good positive start for your future. I actually envy people who have been to university and college as I chose to never go, now I'm wound up in a job that I hate with fake people all around me, not good!
The one thing you should bare in mind is that all of the people in your course are there for the same reason, so already, you have something in common. Your work. A great way to hang out with new people would maybe be to go and study with them, or ask if they want to go for a drink. You really need to come out of your shell and sell yourself to people who look remotely interesting. Just because you're not into shoes, handbags and boys doesn't mean that you're an outsider - people have different interests so don't be so hard on yourself!
Take the opportunity from your tutor to get yourself some help appreciate the fact that you're at uni and doing well for yourself!
You'll be okay.
Take care of yourself,
Becky
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