Ahh! My laptop's on it's way out and I need to replace the hard drive.
My boyfriend's friend has offered to replace it, buy it, install it for around £70 (£10 labor, £60 for the new hard drive).
It's an awesome favor he's doing for me but I just couldn't give him my laptop just now even though he could take it away and get it fixed soonish and I'd just have to send him the money.
But now I feel anxious and paranoid about giving him my laptop. I've never let anyone look through my computer since my mum used to go through my pc and it didn't end well. I still get anxious when I let people use my computer.
It's something I've just realized really but knew was always there. I just hate feeling like I have something to hide and not being able to trust someone.
I don't know what to do. I could get my laptop repaired by a random person who I won't see again and won't have to worry about them finding out something about me I don't want them to know. But it would cost more money and probably offend my friend and make me seem ungreatful :( I already feel so bad for not just giving it to him just now without any real valid reason I could tell him :(