Originally Posted by
paranoidtree
Hi Annie, i agree that if you are not in the right place (physically, emotionally or mentally) then there is no point forcing yourself back to work as it will only serve to make you feel worse. You need to feel strong enough to do this and i'm sure your employer will understand and support you in this.
With regards to the counselling, i don't know if you have had much counselling before but it is quite normal at the beginning of working with someone to in some ways feel worse as you are talking out stuff that you may never have done before. the type of counselling you are describing is very typical of 'person-centered' counselling which is talking therapy rather than CBT which is more action based - it may be you need a mixture of both. and you may have some sessions where you feel you have just talked and not moved on but the very fact you are talking is healthy. i feel like this after my sessions but then realise i have understood my issues a little better.
I hope you feel better soon, especially your poor foot!