I've never met anyone else who can relate to this, firstly cuz it is really embarrassing and secondly cuz it's not the kind of question you ask. But, personally I know I am scared of women. Ive was always an outgoing kid and did loads of things but was always fairly comfortable around "girls", then throughout my teens I seemed to get extremely self concious. I know everyone at this stage feels like this and is nervous with the opposite sex, but this is where I think I made a fatal error. Where some people evntually jump and go for it, I have failed to ever make a move on anyone. I always work myself up into such a state that it just becomes impossible to come off "normal" in a conversation and it just scares ppl off. I'm really at a loss to know where to go next. Im 23 now and I feel as nervous around women as ever. I know probably the best solution is to try one step at a time but this is hard when I know I will freak out and make a fool of myself. If only I could get past the first hurdle I know I wd be ok. Can anyone else relate or at least giv some tips to calm me down. It seems even the most nervous ppl on here hav partners and it's really beginning to get me down.
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