Really need some hugs today

[Annie0904]

You deserved the praise Tessar.

[Tessar]

Thanku again Annie. I don't feel brave right now, I feel like blubbing, but I am not going to because that would make my nose run & I don't want to have to blow it or it might affect my extraction site! Food & painkillers for me soon, trying to hold off eating as long as possible. Oh, is it normal to feel pressure in your check below your eye when they press to get the tooth out? I suppose it would be if they use enough force? It wasn't for very long. H & I need a sling for my tongue to keep it out of the way!

[Tessar]

hello everyone. right now isnt a great time for me.... my mother is in hospital & is going to have to live in a care home from now on as she's too frail to live at home with my father, plus she's got really bad dementia now. i havent always got on with them but underneath that i do still remember good times. those good times are what i am doing everything i can to focus on as i know that its pointless clinging onto anger & resentment from the past.
i would really appreciate some hugs & encouragement thank you. it may sound silly but it was quite hard to say this, usually i just pretend everything is ok but i think this is too big to sweep under the carpet.

[Annie0904]

[Tessar]

Oh no 2naughty ones got away!!!!!

[almamatters]

xx

[ButterflyBandage]

[Magic]

for Tessar xxx

[Tessar]

Thanku ... They r helping :-)

[daisydaisy]

Tessar only just seen this. I'm so sorry I have read your other post too where you said about visiting your parents and how difficult it was- you know what, you're so right. No matter what happens to us in this life, our parents will always be our parents and times like this are hard. You're such a nice person that even if you try not to care, you still do deep down as you have said. It's ok to feel sad and need hugs. We all need hugs from time to time, and you have given me plenty- so here's yours xx