I felt awful Wednesday so my GP saw me. He diagnosed me with social anxiety and said I have agoraphobic tendencies. He said it was all caused by my brother attacking me and losing my Nan, all in such a short space of time.
In the last 8 weeks I've started with hot flushes in my face/head, which causes me to panic. I then became scared to go out incase it happened, then more recently I ha a full on panic attack in a supermarket, since that day I find coin put to shops or any social situation very difficult :(
I told my GP I am terrified I am becoming agoraphobic. Before I go out my stomach flips, heart races, when in the shop or a public place I'm c shanty fighting it, trying to stop myself from feeling anxious. Yesterday at my daughters concert, the whole hour I just clutched my husbands hand, my heart was racing, flighting panic. I felt I'd let my daughter down, but my husband said the fact I still go out and push myself no matter how it makes me feel, shows how much I care and don't want to let it beat me.
My GP said to keep going out. I told him I feel anxious even at home now, all day I'm just fighting panic, feeling anxiety rush around. He said its come from feeling unsafe after my brothers attack, I scared out and inside. It's strange as I don't think of my brother now but maybe this has all been triggered by him.
My GP offered me CBT, he's referred me. He also said meds were an option. He's given me that option but as I'm allergic to ssri meds I can only take tricyclics so he's prescribed Dothiepin, reluctantly due to its dangerous heart links but I took its 8 years ago for a year for anxiety and he thinks t better the devil we know. Of course I'm too scared to start it but I'm also desperate to feel relaxed. I hate taking medication after having an allergic reaction, I ate any side effects. I also don't want to start medication, I just want to go back to the girl I was a few months ago:((
Last night I sat in a church service for my sons carol service. I manage it and actually felt relaxed. How I did it I don't know, but it made me wonder if I can fight this.
My question is do any if you suffer like I do, feeling anxiety out of the house to the point you avoid going out if possible, but also anxious at home? And do you use medication or not? I'm just interested to know. I feel under such pressure to take it.
I'm 33, married with 3 children, I have to get over this awful anxiety. I'm too busy to become agoraphobic:( Please advise if you can. Thank you.