OK, so I'm really down right now. It feels as if nobody even notices me anymore, even my family. But I guess with depression, it's normal to feel like this right?...
I've always been a loner, with hardly no friends at all. Or when I do make 'friends' I always get left out of conversations or brushed aside anyway. It's always been a problem for me but I don't show it. I just pretend I'm fine and play along as I don't ever wish to cry on anyone's shoulders or complain about it and just be a pain in the butt to them. You see, I have terrible social anxiety and I'm incredibly shy. I always find it extremely comfortable to be around other people (except family). I worry that I'll say something completely stupid or just be a really boring person and they'll stop talking to me.
I have Facebook with 40 something friends, but NO ONE comments or likes my statuses or anything. Nobody. I'm not being an ass or anything but it kinda annoys me when I see statuses like, 'It's sunny!' or something and get loads of likes and comments. I've TRIED messaging people on there but after the second message I send, they get completely ignored, which does make me upset. My messages always contain questions like, 'so what music do you like?' etc to keep the conversation flowing, so I'm confused to why they get ignored. Yeah, maybe I am just a boring old person who doesn't deserve anyone in life. Maybe I'm just destined to be alone. Now I only message and comment to people who write and message me first, but that gets me no where either. So I'm in a lose-lose situation here..
I was bullied severely in school which lead me to having low-self esteem, a LOT of anxiety, social problems and trust issues after I left school. It's gotten so bad that I cannot trust anyone anymore. I just don't know who's genuine and not..
I don't have interests in ANYTHING anymore besides drawing. I guess that's also a part of being depressed too. I lost interest in drawing a year or so ago but now I'm doing drawings everyday which I'm happy about since I'm currently enjoying it. I'm planning to be a cartoonist in the future. That'll never happen though since I fail at everything in life and probably always will do until the day I die..
I'm worried sick that I'm going to be at home for the rest of my life with no friends, no job, nothing. The only thing I will have in 40 or so years time is my 19 year old sister who I will look after since my parents won't be around then. I'm glad that I will have someone with me for the rest of my life, but still.... even my 19 year old sister finds me annoying.
I'm currently on ESA and at home doing nothing but drawing, watching some TV and exercising daily and that's it. That's all my days consist of. Nothing else.
My therapist recommended joining a group of people that I can meet and stuff, but every group/clubs I've been to so far (at least 6), I've been completely unnoticed...
My Dad, who is very close to me is very unwell and has quite a few medical conditions which cannot be treated that are getting worse as the months go by, so I'm scared to death I'm going to wake up one morning and find out that he's passed away. He's even said it himself that he doesn't think he will last out that much longer.
I'm tired............