Re: 2013 Agoraphobia Thread
Originally Posted by
flossie
little wren. What are you frightened will happen to you if you go out alone, even to the bins? Can you explain it to us. It doesn't matter how silly it might feel to express it, we all have our thoughts that are equally daft. Just seeing it written down may take some of the fear away for you and maybe between us we can break it down into something less threatening for you to manage.
Thank you so much flossie for helping me to 'hear' myself. Hearing it come back to me has shown me my thoughts became caught up in the 'i can't do it' mentality. The fear of going to bins (my bins are actually set away from the house and garden) stemmed from a very real threat a year ago but I needed to remind myself that threat no longer exists. Ive been to the bins - no probs whatsoever - I just need to keep reminding myself to just do it!
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