What is it I have? Here we go, long story hopefully cut short.
I was attacked by my brother last September, slowly I started withdrawing from the outside world, staying at home, scared in shops/cafes etc.... I stopped visiting friends too so became so lonely. My 'family' took my brothers side saying he is 'ill' so can't control his anger and because I cut him off I am the bad guy, so basically I became very low and lonely. I have a wonderful husband and 3 beautiful children who have been very understanding.
By December going into a public place was hell, at school concerts I wanted to run out, I felt dizzy, anxious, light headed, sickly, heart racing and hot flushes in my face. In the end I stopped going out so my GP had to come to my house to see me. He put me on an anti depressant to help anxiety which worked well but 7 weeks in I woke one night with my heart racing in the night, I had never had this before, nor had I ever worried about my heart so I decided to come off the medication as my GP said they can cause heart problems.
I am now off medication, 2 weeks now and feeling ok but the feelings of going into shops are creeping back and I am starting to find it hard again where as the med had helped abit. I am pushing myself and going to shops, resturants etc... but when I am there I feel trapped, can't wait until the end is in sight, I find it a very scary experience. The fear is of fainting infront of people and everyone seeing me having a panic attack, and doing this infront of my children. Once I had a panic attack in a shop, my heart raced, I was hot, my legs went to jelly, all at the checkout, that was another reason I stopped going out, I felt such a fool and it scared me.
I have my GP today at 3.30 and the thought of going scares me, he always keeps me waiting and I hate waiting in the waiting room, incase I feel anxious and can't leave, or panic infront of everyone.
I hate that these feelings are creeping back:-( I don't know how to stop them and just live a normal life. I want to work, I have a job interview monday but I doubt i will go because I can't sit in a room feeling trapped.
Can I do this without medication? I push myself daily to the shops, take my children out, but it is exhausting. I don't stay indoors but it is getting me down feeling like this, I fear it will beat me.
In the past I have only suffered health anxiety, so this is so new to me and I am not sure how to beat it. My GP referred me to the mental health team and after my assessment he said I could fight this on my own using past CBT techniques, but I had CBT for health anxiety, 5 years ago, very different.
Any advice appreciated. I am only 33, I have my life ahead of me, I am sick of being stuck at home or having to force myself to do things I used to take for granted.